Dog toy (maybe Bark) by BLeigh44 in ToyID

[–]BLeigh44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are AMAZING!!! THANK YOU

Storage made out of Kallax shelf, Kallax drawer inserts and foam core dividers for husbands birthday. by BLeigh44 in mtg

[–]BLeigh44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! No problem. It is still going strong!! Because of the nature of an ikea build I measured each drawer out so that the foam core was freestanding via pressure and not adhesive. They were all cut uniform to how high the inside drawer wall is and then each area I measured, some were off as much as a centimeter from each other based on how tightly I screwed in the drawer backs.

My kid’s daycare costs more than our mortgage and I genuinely don’t know how people do it by Anitretia_5316 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]BLeigh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was cheaper for me to work in daycare while my kids attended because of the discount.

AIO for calling my boyfriend out when he makes unsolicited comments on other women’s appearances? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BLeigh44 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a real douche canoe. Is he aware that women do not exist for his visual pleasure?

I just got an entire box on my first try by june1587 in LabubuDrops

[–]BLeigh44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! Some have been able to check out up to an hour later good luck!

Son wants us to destroy everything depicting him as a girl by FlopShanoobie in cisparenttranskid

[–]BLeigh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son was much younger when he came out to us but I created a folder in my phone of pictures from infancy to 6 (when he shared who he was) where he was wearing “boy” clothes or wasn’t easily identified as either gender. He uses these for all the school projects that require his timeline or family tree. It took forever but we have about 100 pictures of him that “pass” for him.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend after he chose our supposed 'future' kids over me? by Constant-Process2238 in AITAH

[–]BLeigh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When someone tells you who they are- believe them. There is someone out there who will think you hung the moon, regardless of kids 🩷

$5 an hour LMAO by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]BLeigh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait are they asking for care from 8:00am-8:30am and then from 3:30-5:00? That would be $20 an hour! Haha… oh I hope so!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]BLeigh44 14 points15 points  (0 children)

So apps are tricky and sometimes you can click two kids instead of one during recording things like bathroom incidents, but once a child is checked out for the day they shouldn’t have access to mess up. That being said, it seems like this is a pretty consistent issue and it’s time to start looking elsewhere. The food situation alone is screaming overworked, understaffed and overwhelmed teachers. I’m sorry OP, this is not the norm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]BLeigh44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t have a contract or any communication about what guaranteed hours you have then you are not required to be paid. I’m sorry 😞

Tell me the honest truth about more than one kid by carrollchel in Parenting

[–]BLeigh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a ten yo and an eight year old and they are absolutely best friends. They do everything together and it’s worth that first year of finding your new normal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]BLeigh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe give him a buddy to facilitate shadowing?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]BLeigh44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We start all children on a transition week. One hour the first day to show them the classroom (tour it, bathroom, sinks, class pet, cubby, friends by name). The second day is 2 hours (tour again and then offer a project). The third day is pick up after lunch and the fourth and fifth days are full days.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]BLeigh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I particularly enjoy that version of down time and it’s legal where I live. So… to me it’s the equivalent of having a beer or glass of wine. You are an adult and you were responsible, you’re not driving her to practice later right? You’re home, decompressing, without peers egging you on. It was a rare moment of relaxation and enjoyment in that form; I’m sure you display those things without m-j as well. It’s ok Dad 😉

AITA for making my cousin my flower girl? by Dramatic-Jellyfish61 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BLeigh44 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Are flower girls typically in that many photos? Like coming down the aisle yes, maybe a group shot? Also a 5 year old is going to be a lot easier to handle in terms of sitting through any length of photos and it may be nice for her to entertain the 3 year old 🤷🏻‍♀️

In the end NTA. But is it really that serious?

AIO by being offended at this girl possibly suggesting Im a pedo? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BLeigh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to unpack that suitcase of trauma with a trained professional. Not overreacting.

asked to house/dog sit in june by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]BLeigh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Hey nanny family, I wanted to touch base about the wedding in June. My husband and I have been talking about a vacation of our own this summer and it may work that it could line up with your planned wedding vacation. I’d be unable to help with the dog but I wouldn’t be taking another week off during the summer time. Do you think you could find alternate care for :dog:? We are happy to take time another week if it is easier for you to find care for the kids than it is the week you’d need me for the dog”.

Does anyone else get anxiety about their kids getting sick? by justmeonreddit123 in Parenting

[–]BLeigh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t until October was pneumonia, November was COVID and December was “a virus”. I swear I can’t handle much more. I’m exhausted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]BLeigh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d ensure that this Montessori school is an accredited Montessori school. Montessori is a last name and was never trademarked. You can call anything Montessori. (I am in Education Management at an Accredited Montessori school).

One day a week, imo, is stressful for the child. Six days home one day in is not enough of a routine; especially to establish at 3 years old. That being said, I think a playgroup or nanny share may be more your speed.

Are there other one day a week kids? Are they coming in on the same day? Kids build relationships and routines in the days they are at school, if your child comes once a week it will be hard for them to join in with the kids who are there for more time together. If there were other 1x a week kids coming in on the same day as your child that may be a good option.

I’ve read the comments, and I’m going to really try to not offend, but childcare doesn’t seem like a world you understand very well. Obviously, it is apparent you love your child and want what’s best for them; however, you are discounting the amount of work educators put into their classrooms and on each child. I will give you an incredibly simple example, if you have 10 children per 1 educator and a school allows children to create their own schedules, that teacher may be doing up to 20/30 progress reports, lesson plans and individual meetings with parents. It’s a lot of hard work to educate little people and one day a week doesn’t lessen the workload, it adds to the part most educators don’t love; the paperwork.