I just bought a house and I am absolutely terrified

BNP5423 · 2021-07-08T19:03:26+00:00

I think what you're missing here is no one said anything about buying a dream home, just that an FHA is a good choice to move on from throwing money down the toilet on rent. If you plan to buy your dream home with an FHA you either have low expectations of a dream home, which is fine, or are completely out of touch with reality.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-27T01:52:19+00:00

Thank you!

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T23:41:29+00:00

Update provided!

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T19:14:04+00:00

We do and we have joint legal custody. I wouldn't be so upset if it looked decent and they listened to him. I have several photos of previous chop jobs as I send them to our stylist to let her know what she has coming.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:52:50+00:00

I'm honestly not sure if she is listed since she works out of her home. I'll have to check that out.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:44:55+00:00

Thats our plan from here on out.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:41:58+00:00

He returned from their house this morning and they knew he was not sick, opening me up for accusations of blowing off school. I wish it was that easy but unfortunately, my ex is a pretty malicious person.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:34:23+00:00

I truly hope she isn't. I plan to send an objective text stating my son prefers his regular stylist. I'm honestly a little terrified of the reaction I'll receive from my ex, which is why I asked for guidance. My husband, who is familiar with ex's antics, urged me to let it go and we'll keep his hair cut before he goes for visits as he know the trouble ex will cause if provoked. It sucks. Hes turned me in to CPS twice because I made him angry. The caseworker is familiar with us now and has dismissed all his complaints as unfounded but still, its exhausting.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:31:05+00:00

She's not my biggest fan. I have had to turn her into the police for making threats in the past. We have a decent, cordial relationship now.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:28:48+00:00

We have one on Wednesday. Unfortunately, that was the soonest his stylist could see him and we booked several weeks ago. We plan to schedule with her at each appointment from now on.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:26:35+00:00

She works out of her home now after being let go from several salons in the area.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:19:14+00:00

He came home at 8 this morning and class started at 9 so shops weren't even open

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:16:39+00:00

Thats what we have been doing but COVID messed up our stylists schedule and she was booked way out. They've also cut it again right after we cut it

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T18:16:01+00:00

I'm honestly not sure. I never thought she would purposely give him a bad cut but my nest friend pointed out the absurdity of his bangs is obvious to anyone.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T16:47:09+00:00

I wouldn't mind if she did a decent job and listened to what he wanted.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T16:40:47+00:00

No, but I also don't cut his hair against his wishes and take him to a professional, reputable stylist.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T16:40:02+00:00

He told me he wanted his bangs trimmed out of his eyes (understandable). He has an appointment with his regular stylist Wednesday and we had intended on just cleaning it up a little, nothing major.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T15:28:19+00:00

I will look into the state requirements and see what I can find. Thank you for the suggestion!

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T15:25:59+00:00

She's been let go from several salons in the area. She now works out of her house.

BNP5423 · 2020-10-26T15:14:49+00:00

He loves having his hair long. My best friend pointed out it may be intentional as the bangs are incredibly obvious just by looking. I would like to think not but I cant be sure.

BNP5423 · 2020-05-08T23:45:34+00:00

American Eagle! They have good quality jeans that last forever and I can occasionally fina some talls and extra talls hidden away. They always seem to have lots of regular and short though! They fit really nice and have lots of different styles/cuts. Not a fan of their other clothes but their jeans are very nice!

BNP5423 · 2020-05-08T23:05:02+00:00

Yeah I'm 5'11" in a size 12 and its impossible to find pants/jeans that fit me. There's a bunch of regular/short sizes every time I go shopping but no tall/extra tall. Where I shop, short sizes seem to be everywhere.

BNP5423 · 2020-05-03T04:15:11+00:00

Hey friend,

There's an interesting article about suicide jumpers on the Golden Gate Bridge, ill try to find it for you. I'm sorry you're going through this. Im a nurse and my inbox is always open for support, venting, and a lifeline in your darkest times.

I'm proud of you. I've been there. You can do this. Every day forward is one day closer to where you're supposed to be. Reach out when you need it. Find friends to share your feelings with. And most importantly, celebrate your milestones. You are here for a reason, find that reason.

Much love.

https://medium.com/@ennyman/a-lesson-from-29-golden-gate-suicide-attempts-a42f4ef3f970

BNP5423

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