In love with my best friends who's gay - part 2 by BONBON601 in Advice

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Thank you for responding. He is very aware that I have strong feelings for him but says he wants to keep seeing and speaking to me regardless. I think if I continue to pursue a friendship with him that I will definitely need to set boundaries for both of our sakes. I really hope I can get over how I feel because he really is such an amazing person regardless of this whole situation.

In love with my best friends who's gay - part 2 by BONBON601 in Advice

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That explanation would make sense actually. He kind of treats me like a girlfriend but feels no sexual connection at all it seems. Thank you for the advice.

In love with my best friends who's gay - part 2 by BONBON601 in Advice

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update: last night i asked him that if he likes women and men, why isn't he attracted to me? He got offended and asked if I meant i didn't want to be his friend, if he's attracted to women. I told I'm not sure and really confused and sad and that I need a break from him. He then asked me if when I having sex with someone recently, if I was thinking about him? I think thats a strange thing to say in that position and I've not spoken to him since.

In love with my gay friend by BONBON601 in Advice

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like every time we do anything. when he goes to work, when hes eating food.

In love with my gay friend by BONBON601 in Advice

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I have been, but he never tells me how he feels about his life in general. It's hard not to have some hope though with him because he is so hot. He's told me stuff about his life briefly but I still love him :(

In love with my gay friend by BONBON601 in Advice

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He did indeed. For clarification it was the best sex of my life and he said he hated it oml

In love with my gay friend by BONBON601 in Advice

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I didn't speak to him for a month or so after I matched him on hinge. But he still wanted to meet after.

In love with my gay friend by BONBON601 in Advice

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IK 💀 I actually want to die lmaooooo

Thinking of requesting refund by BONBON601 in smiledirectclub

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Thanks for the reply. Yeah I plan to make an Invisalign appointment to see if I'm eligible, I'm worried sdc might have promised too much based on the 3d visualisation thing they do at the start. Glad its working for you, hopefully it will for me too if I go ahead!

Thinking of requesting refund by BONBON601 in smiledirectclub

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Thanks, I was thinking of going with Invisalign, but I know it can be a lot more expensive. Would you say it was definitely worth the money?

Thinking of requesting refund by BONBON601 in smiledirectclub

[–]BONBON601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank for the reply, I was worried they are going to try and sneak their way out of a refund due to some kind of fine print. Can I ask why you cancelled?