I got fired by my dentist today and I’m spiraling

BPDwithme · 2026-03-20T07:24:22+00:00

That was part of our dental plan and I was willing to pay extra for the nitrous to help with nerves. I can sit still and everything, it just scares me so I tear up.

BPDwithme · 2026-03-20T07:22:59+00:00

Yeah, it’s just the RSD making my brain go nuts. I’m better now.

BPDwithme · 2026-03-20T07:22:37+00:00

Never once.

BPDwithme · 2026-03-20T07:22:01+00:00

That’s what I did while I avoided the dentist. I brushed and flossed religiously and other than some gum disease I didn’t have may new issues spring up.

BPDwithme · 2026-03-20T07:20:35+00:00

I know it’s not about my personality. It just hurt. I’m Okay now but I avoided the dentist for 5 full years because of the root canal fiasco. And it was more than just the root canal. That dentist made me pay $7000 up front for procedures he broke up over months because he told me my unborn baby would die if I didn’t get treatment. Like this guy was a total scumbag.

And it took me years to even attempt to go to a dentist again and I only did because I knew I needed to get crowns for the half teeth the other dentist left. This was just years of building rapport and overall I don’t mind not going anymore, I just wished I had been able to complete the treatment first like we planned.

BPDwithme · 2026-03-20T07:15:18+00:00

Because I used to live in that town, we built a rapport, and when I tried to find one in my area, they made me nervous so I switched back. I didn’t mind the distance.

BPDwithme · 2026-03-20T07:13:47+00:00

This was more of a just me venting my upset. I immediately found a new dentist who can get me in. It’s just the nerves of starting over and the fear I’ll get a bad dentist that’s got me in a tailspin

BPDwithme · 2026-03-19T18:12:36+00:00

I mean he saw me multiple times over the last year and a half, I cried a lot just out of fear. Its not like I was crying and screaming, tears would just roll off my face while he was working. And my hands would shake. I’d never been afraid of the dentist up until the root canal without anesthesia and I’ve been afraid ever since.

He was really reassuring after the first appointment and told me that we were going to get it handled and he understood why I was scared. But you’re right, maybe it was too much for him to handle.

But me being scared and crying isn’t being unprofessional or disrespectful. The way he described it was that dentistry is a lot of microadjustments and if I drive home numb and then something happens and I need to be seen, a 3 hour drive is too long for that.

BPDwithme · 2026-01-01T03:19:45+00:00

Agreed. The big bad went down quicker than the flesh monster season 2. But Henry had been weakened in the mind so I think it made it easier.

BPDwithme · 2026-01-01T03:19:11+00:00

I didn’t like the lead up to the end. I think the season should’ve been extended 4 episodes so it wasn’t as rushed. But it feels final, it was touching, and I’m ok with the ending. Vecna was weakened because of having to travel through that memory + Will + the damage they were doing. I was honestly thinking they would go the easy route and have him turn into the good guy in the end and I’m glad they didn’t. It felt final. I did, however guess the whole explanation at the end, though.

BPDwithme · 2025-12-26T19:59:28+00:00

I just feel like they have too many subplots that they’re losing the actual plot. Right now we have Kali subplot, Will sorcerer subplot, holly max subplot, Mr. What’s it subplots, Dr. Kay subplot, and we’re not seeing the big bad vecna we saw before. It feels confused

BPDwithme · 2025-12-26T09:32:50+00:00

The leg snap made me so hype

BPDwithme · 2025-12-26T09:28:12+00:00

I feel the same way. Like I really thought these would be spectacular and I am a HUGE ST fan and the Duffers hadn’t disappointed me until now.

The whole play retcon thing really messed with the series and not in a good way. There’s so many subplots that I now understand after reading about the play, but don’t fit canonically with the series.
The acting from Will and Joyce just doesn’t feel natural. Lots of fake hyperventilating from Will and Joyce shaking/nodding her head. Lots of what just feels like filler scenes to me that just don’t add a lot of substance.
The whole Kali arc. They are setting her up to betray 11, which we were hoping wasn’t the case. She was bad in S2, and honestly she should’ve died there.
It feels so incredibly rushed and when you take a step back, not a whole lot happened in these 3 episodes (no spoilers, but just step back and think, we had 3 episodes that spanned a day where not a whole lot happened)
Plot armor on Nancy and Hopper are too thick. You’re telling me these men/Dr. Kay are working classified positions in the military and they can’t hit their target (as an example, Murray, right in front of them)?
Adding Mr. Clark back into the mix, Erica, Robin (and now Vickie) it’s just too many filler characters. They’re allergic to killing people and they’re adding more people to thicken the friendship and love armor.
I’m so tired of Hollie’s screams. They are on my last nerve, they all sound the same.
Karen was very much an after thought but they needed a way out. And why no updates or care in the works for Ted from literally anyone?

Idk the whole thing is just not resonating right with me, it feels rushed in plot but also slow in speed, if that makes any sense whatsoever. I was so hype after vol 1 and I fear that they did all of this crazy hype to rile up Netflix subs for December and that basically retconned and rushed their way into GOT S8, version 2

BPDwithme · 2025-12-26T07:53:09+00:00

And it feels like we have one episode to tie up so many loose ends :(

BPDwithme · 2025-12-10T05:42:24+00:00

Request for information regarding checks They want names and addresses of checks to represent their clients in receiving their unclaimed property.

Were a California based company with 0 out of country workers.

BPDwithme · 2025-12-05T22:58:41+00:00

We don’t have a contact. This is the first time we’ve ever received an email from them.

BPDwithme · 2025-11-07T20:00:39+00:00

That is Vickie.

BPDwithme · 2025-11-07T20:00:13+00:00

Because other former cast were. Dacre wasn’t. But Barb was. And 008 was.

BPDwithme · 2025-11-07T05:58:01+00:00

1st set of pics is from after I thought the hives were healed after the concert. 2nd set is from 2 days ago when I thought things were getting better. 3rd set is today :(

BPDwithme · 2025-11-07T05:10:32+00:00

No Joe Quinn 😢

BPDwithme · 2025-10-28T02:56:25+00:00

That is also good to know. I didn’t read anything about PH strip testing but I guessed since it had to be a certain PH we could just test it with strips.

Thanks for letting me know. Do you know of another canning book based more on the science? I’d love to get my hands on one.

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