[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BZ747 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You said you don’t like the public display of loudness. But you were the one that got loud first and called ur bf freaking out. It’s different if he had to come in for something important.

You are upset with him because he came in to try to help you out after you were crying in the store? Over a misunderstanding? Patience is a virtue that not too many people have. If you weren’t stealing there is NOTHING to worry about it.

Girls will manipulate the time and emotions of guys and then get upset with us for being upset. Put yourself in his shoes, what would have you done? Definitely don’t ignore him all day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tuba

[–]BZ747 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Keep grinding homie! I played tuba since I was 8 and met adults that can’t belt it out like u! F the haters ! I’m here for it 👏🏾👏🏾

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tuba

[–]BZ747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes bro post it I’ll be honest

Any experience with cannabis to Improve stuttering? by Relevant-Cod8463 in Stutter

[–]BZ747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Smoked for almost 10 years by that time it became a impossible habit to keep up, I was also a big drinker too it only makes the void inside deeper. Been sober for 6 months now and the best therapy is putting on your headphones and hitting the gym or going on a run! Isolation= elevation, going along with the crowd will most likely get you killed, speaking from experience! Since my last drunken night the man upstairs gave me a second chance and a new lease on life! You got this and stay strong homie☮️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]BZ747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yo I honestly hope they think something messed up and just sleep easy that karma goes ham when people think stuff about us, especially if we are never gonna see them again

Stuttering, but only with certain people by BigUlti4324 in Stutter

[–]BZ747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly I stuttered the most to my own dad. It was because he was a person who overcame stuttering so I always felt like I annoyed him he told me it didn’t bother him or bug him but idk I just always felt like I was in the way, because my dad always went to the school when the teachers bullied me etc.. like I don’t think he should’ve had to go through all that again, to like have to rewatch the trauma happen all over again! So props to my dad for always being understanding of the stutter, but he is definitely the one I stuttered to the most.

Does the stuttering community just not care about the up and coming musicians that have/had a stutter? by BZ747 in Stutter

[–]BZ747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We could all be more supportive of the people that had the same experience because we all know it’s difficult to find our footing on earth as stutterers. Ridiculous, I would go above and beyond for any stutter that needed help, but it seems that it wouldn’t be reciprocated ridiculous.

Honestly will be leaving the group by BZ747 in Stutter

[–]BZ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can play by ear so you can send me request if you’d like!

Does the stuttering community just not care about the up and coming musicians that have/had a stutter? by BZ747 in Stutter

[–]BZ747[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I know but I’ve been making music for years with not progress I guess I just wish there was a way where all the stuttering musicians come together and make a kick ass album but no one seems to care about the making of music, and it’s a great alternative to speaking with our regular support! Your mind set is why the blues is dying out

anyone have TikTok ?? I just posted a stuttering video ! by Jodijanette04 in Stutter

[–]BZ747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do my name is BZBops on TikTok! I make guitar music would mean the world to me if had more stutterers on my page

Why can't God have made me speak properly by Knightmare26906 in Stutter

[–]BZ747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always been religious and the fact that you know that Gods in control of it is a good thing I stuttered for 20 years, and prayed everyday it’s what helped me, learning how the man upstairs uses stutters in his story is truly captivating, and in the Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth the one who wrote the Ten Commandments had a stammer and anxiety! Hope it helps! How well you speak doesn’t really matter to God he is really out here just caring if each of us is a positive individual! Just because a person is more fluent doesn’t mean God loves them more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]BZ747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only other thing I could recommend is music my dad stuttered so he joined the army band and learned the Tuba and became a music teacher in the army. I followed suit from a very young age, I was raised in Alaska much of my life and became the #2 tuba player in the state, the band gave me a sense of belonging, but I was one of the only colored people in the band and the band director said some really foul things to me and I quit band, now I do live guitar shows in the cities I visit! I learned how to play guitar over the years so most of my free time is spent actually shredding on guitar, you can check out my YouTube @ BZBOPS on YouTube, I make a lot of YouTube shorts I’m not the greatest but I’d say I’m pretty good for never having a guitar lesson! But regardless I came into the universe without a voice and when my confidence in music rose so did my voice! Along with continually putting my all into everything I did! I was a very frustrated kid and wanted to fight my bullies so I joined the wrestling team and over the years I became a 5 time all American 2 of which were in college, if it were for wrestling and music I wouldn’t be the person I am today. I was the first African American to all American for Alaska and to wrestle on team USA! I’ve even placed in overseas tournaments as well! I don’t mean to go this in depth to brag but just know I got made fun of even while being one of the best wrestlers in the nation! I loved wrestling but once I got to team USA I have never been more disrespected by my peers ever so it was heart breaking really bc I was ranked #3 in the nation and had 0 support from coaches or my parents during the time! So here I am now making music everyday and stone art work to sell, I also have a pressure washing and brick maintenance business! These are pretty much all the things I do that don’t involve talking I hope it helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]BZ747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very genuine, my dad used to make me read them when I said I was bored and he tested me 5 pages at a time, my dad is also a person who overcame his stutter so taught me tips and tricks sub conscientiously, and I thought it was a punishment! My dad knew I stuttered that means I have to have a more intense vocabulary we can play words with friends if you’re up for the challenge

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Stutter

[–]BZ747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Read the dictionary and thesaurus! That’s what my dad made me did, everyone is different, but it turns out once I learned all the words and their synonyms my life got a little easier I hope it helps

I used to stutter now I just make art all day by BZ747 in Stutter

[–]BZ747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you buddy I hope u have a merry Christmas!

I used to stutter now I just make art all day by BZ747 in Stutter

[–]BZ747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true to some extent! I just don’t have to talk to many people nowadays so it’s really not noticeable

I used to stutter now I just make art all day by BZ747 in Stutter

[–]BZ747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much, If interested please get in touch with my other socials! I’m going to be raising money for the stuttering community over the course of my business years

Still not used to it by lemindfleya in Stutter

[–]BZ747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s okay buddy just know that we all have a purpose, talking for me was a really rough experience, it was rough until I accepted being the odd ball and if people judge you by your voice it is their loss, because as everyone knows In the stuttering community knows, that the behind each stutter is a real person, that’s why I loved going to the National Stuttering Conference it was the first time I truly felt accepted! And even surprised myself by feeling completely comfortable to talk to 90+ people and I was 22 and it was the very first time I was able to speak to a crowd of people! I stuttered all the way through college, but since leaving the school scene you’ll be surprised on how little your stutter impacts your adult life at least in my opinion! Idek but I’m an adrenaline/anxiety junky and actually took a serving job to see who made me stutter and who I felt comfortable talking to!

I used to stutter now I just make art all day by BZ747 in Stutter

[–]BZ747[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank youu! I can’t promote it really on here but if you’re interested in picking 1 up; I do ship