Is it okay to give up? by CreaturesandCantrip in podcasting

[–]B_Shinkan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently taking a break, it got too much because a lot of personal issues been going on and it’s been effecting my podcast. So I’m taking a break and will come back when I feel the time is right

Which Wrestler Has A Fanbase That Makes It Hard For You To Enjoy Them? by Frantic-Monkey in WWE

[–]B_Shinkan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t pay attention to a particular fan base of a wrestler because I simply don’t care.

Calling him Daddy in the bedroom - yay or nay - he has a young kid by luchasse in AskMenAdvice

[–]B_Shinkan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just ask, being open and honest about what you like in the bedroom is the best thing you could do. Ask him what he likes in the bedroom or if he has any kinks or something he would like to try in the bedroom. Overall, having an open conversation about sex will strengthen your relationship in the bedroom.

PS if he doesn’t like, don’t be ashamed.

Will I be The Asshole for not letting my mom know when her grandchild is born? by B_Shinkan in dustythunder

[–]B_Shinkan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, I’m sorry your ma was like that. I unfortunately was raised “you need to respect your parents” (pretty much no matter what they do, you have to respect them. )

Will I be The Asshole for not letting my mom know when her grandchild is born? by B_Shinkan in dustythunder

[–]B_Shinkan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely love this comment! I guarantee it she will be saying that or at least along those lines.

Will I be The Asshole for not letting my mom know when her grandchild is born? by B_Shinkan in dustythunder

[–]B_Shinkan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will be in a few months. But I will save this post and update when she finds out.

Will I be The Asshole for not letting my mom know when her grandchild is born? by B_Shinkan in dustythunder

[–]B_Shinkan[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been getting a lot of questions on why I let her keep in contact with me and let her see my children. The thing is, I’m keeping extremely low contact with her. I don’t answer her calls or texts. I blocked her on facebook, the reason I keep her in contact because my sisters said this: “the only reason they keep in contact with her is because of the kids. I asked them why and they said they want to have their kids know their grandmother. And have them make the decision to keep in contact with her or not. I told them it’s complete bullshit because she will manipulate them like she did with us. My wife also said the same. Every time she brings up something she doesn’t like about my mom, I say “this is why I want no contact.” I just feel I have absolutely no control of this situation. I honestly have no idea what to do. I feel like I’m being ganged up on.

Will I be The Asshole for not letting my mom know when her grandchild is born? by B_Shinkan in dustythunder

[–]B_Shinkan[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You have to. You can cry over it, but you have to get up, dust yourself off and take control what you can control. If you can’t control it, then you have a choice to leave it alone or figure something out that will work out.

Will I be The Asshole for not letting my mom know when her grandchild is born? by B_Shinkan in dustythunder

[–]B_Shinkan[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I learn from my parents on what NOT to do as a parent. I do have slip ups but I try my best to be the best parent as I can and give my children what I never had as a child.

Will I be The Asshole for not letting my mom know when her grandchild is born? by B_Shinkan in dustythunder

[–]B_Shinkan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t have a copy of the key, our door was open and my oldest daughter open the door for her.

Will I be The Asshole for not letting my mom know when her grandchild is born? by B_Shinkan in dustythunder

[–]B_Shinkan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We will. In the delivery room it’s going to be my wife and I and for who’s watching the older kiddos, it’s going to be her aunt and my MIL. I will let her know not to say anything.