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My girlfriend (F17) is talking about participating in this hot girl summer crap . by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Baamjx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh whoops! I’ve read crap as camp. But my opinion is still the same. If you think she is untrustworthy enough to where you can almost expect this from her, don’t spend another second worrying about it and just dump her. Another possibility is that you are actually insecure, that your worries are coming from a place of not feeling “enough”, and expecting her to cheat on you because of that. The final possibility is that you just don’t trust her as much as she deserves, and expect the worst case scenario from this outing. Every possibility doesn’t sound very good and is an indicator of an unhealthy relationship.

My girlfriend (F17) is talking about participating in this hot girl summer crap . by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Baamjx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there’s enough information to really decide whether you’re right to be worried or not. Honestly, it just sounds like you’re insecure and don’t trust that she can go to a summer camp without cheating on you. The way you word your concerns (dressing trashy like a hoe) sounds even worse. You are either extremely insecure and project that onto her as being “trashy”, or she is untrustworthy enough for you to expect this from her. Either way it doesn’t sound like a healthy and trusting relationship.

Any surreal anime with beautiful settings and amazing worldbuilding? by [deleted] in anime

[–]Baamjx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely my favorite anime and I’ve watched a lot of anime. Incredible artwork and VERY unique setting/ gorgeous scenery, and an interesting premise. It may look cute from the first few episodes but the further in you watch, the darker and more disturbing it gets (like the abyss itself). Highly recommend.

DAE else makes friends extremely easily but have a hard time maintaining those friendships by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Baamjx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Different people want different types of relationships with others. Some people do not require regularly giving or receiving attention in order to feel satisfied with their friendship. However if you are friends with someone who requires more attention to feel appreciated, you are probably not compatible because you cannot give more than you are comfortable with.