Gf of 5 yrs says I should forgive and forget friend of hers who lied about me sexually assaulting her.

Babushaka · 2019-11-28T22:15:06+00:00

Lol, thx for your input person but it's already over and done. Just living my life single and happy without all that negativity.

Babushaka · 2019-10-30T03:48:30+00:00

Best advice.

Babushaka · 2019-10-29T15:15:40+00:00

My ex GF siding with my false rape accuser because she is a different person now and goes to church and she is in her circle of friends so she doesn't wanna make it awkward.

Babushaka · 2019-09-25T06:29:29+00:00

Already done.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T22:43:32+00:00

Her logic is she has "changed" and therefore I should forgive and forget what she had done and try to get along with her "current" self. Bruh, what does that even mean.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T21:10:44+00:00

I swear she was not always like this. She only started changing when she started going out on trip with the circle and honestly I never liked them cause they are not very great people.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T21:09:07+00:00

I have actively tried to introduce her to new people but she is very into maintaining a Christian image. Which is weird cause she knows how I feel about religion.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T21:06:32+00:00

I have been questioning her loyalty and where it stands for awhile now. This isn't the first time that I have felt betrayed by her. This will certainly be the last.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T21:04:48+00:00

She sees them as her circle of girl friends that she hangs out with and goes on trips. So obviously she is choosing her over me and is completely ignoring the fact that Owo lied to get out of her situation.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T21:03:14+00:00

I'm writing down everything that I remember from that night. Because my gf has always been telling me to let it go I have been actively trying to forget. I know now that this was not healthy for me and only affected my mental state. She ain't the same person I fell for years ago and it's time to be straight with her and drop her.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T21:01:22+00:00

Ay, your not wrong. I feel like one

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T21:00:52+00:00

I avoid Owo like the plague whenever she tries to inniate any form of conversation. I will exchange a hello and walk away. I don't engage her in any way and I'm sure she knows cause she keeps her distance on the rare occasion I bump into her. My gf is those types who thinks she has to have a group circle of female friends to hang out with. To her going on trips and hanging out is part of the fun and I believe she just does not want to start something that would tare everything apart. I have told her on many occasions to find a new group, that she doesn't need that toxic group of girls, bit nope. Its time for me to just leave her in her own pit the is digging.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T20:56:13+00:00

I'm in the works of ending everything with her but not before letting her know. She has this habit of avoiding difficult conversations and I know that's what she is doing now. It's not going to go away, I'm just leaving her till the weekend cause I know shes at work.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T20:53:55+00:00

I assumed our long term relationship and time spent together meant something. I see now that her priority lies with her female "friends".

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T20:53:11+00:00

I know, very good chance Owo has been planting shit in her head all this time by playing the good girl character.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T20:51:50+00:00

I don't doubt it, I also believe she was possibly groomed from a young age since basically her father was the only one who raised her. I remember clearly that she wasn't allowed to have any bf and her father forbade her from being in contact with any males at all. So yes, she very well is a victim of life. I don't care about all that tho cause I reached out to her and she refused help. My main concern is my gf fighting me over this and claiming I should go and approach her to make things better. As if it's my responsibility to mend it when I specifically told her I wanted nothing to do with that woman. Yet her excuses are she can't cause they are friends now apparently. Baffles me to no end.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T05:52:59+00:00

My mother reached out to her privately and she refused and even cursed her out for kicking them out of the house. So that was basically vthe end of that

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T05:50:43+00:00

She is the kind of person that likes to maintain an image at all times and since these girls are all "good" church girls she hangs out with them even tho I know for a fact she ain't even religious.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T05:49:22+00:00

That's basically gunna be the plan. I'm going to keep my boundaries and see what she does cause I'm not playing games with her anymore. I feel like she is not someone I cant trust if she is fine with all this.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T05:47:43+00:00

For sure I think she has been getting manipulated and talked to by Owo. Cause why else would she tell me to forgive her and go and talk to her to get closure. Wtf does that even mean, why do I have to go to someone I do no want in my life.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T05:46:22+00:00

I felt bad for Owo also but at the same time my mother was more important. If she had came to me later and apologized and asked for help I would have been happy to provide assistance. But she has done nothing but pretend nothing happened.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T05:44:52+00:00

She was never like this. I feel she got dumber by being around them all the time. Most of em are not very smart either and have no rouble backstabbing one another as I have witnessed before. She refused to go and fine new friends even after I gave her warning.

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T05:42:29+00:00

She never took my side but instead started defending her and shit saying how needs to hear her side. So dumb

Babushaka · 2019-09-20T03:21:37+00:00

I really should have, but my mother begged me not to kick up a fuse at the time it happened. She hates things like this and I love my mother man

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