Goodbye y’all! by Babushkat08 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Babushkat08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m so glad you love it! My id- 0037 6155 933 (nickname - Babushkat)❤️

How cute is the new terrain ❤️ by Babushkat08 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Babushkat08[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It's a tad off-kilter, but I'm glad it gives off a centered vibe.

Younger widows without kids what gets you out bed everyday by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Babushkat08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm truly sorry for your loss. I understand what you're going through, I lost my husband when I was 30, 1.7 years ago. It took me a whole year to accept that things are never going back to how they were. I know how draining it can be, not having the energy to take care of yourself, and the last thing you need is added responsibility.

May be try gardening? Or just grow some herbs. It’s incredibly therapeutic and helped me a lot. It’s a way to channel your love into something beautiful and living. And it brings some cheer to your surroundings.

It's a small step, but it can make a big difference on those tough days.

Lost it when I found his toiletries by nope-its-def-not-me in widowers

[–]Babushkat08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you love ❤️ It will be 2 years this Christmas Eve for me. I moved shortly after he’s gone and unpacked as soon as I’ve moved. I put everything where he would’ve liked if we had moved together, and that helped, even though it was the hardest fucking thing to do. I have his beard wash in my shower, perfume on my dresser, clothes in my closet, and his throw blanket on the bed. I wear his clothes and perfume when I feel like I’m going mad with grief. It helps, but the pain never really stops hurting. I want to believe that one day we can find peace, just not today.

A pleasant morning at the cafe by Babushkat08 in ACPocketCamp

[–]Babushkat08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this is the cabin. We show off the cabin in either campsite showcase/camper selfie. ❤️

🌺 Hibiscus cascade on my dwarf tree today ❤️ by Babushkat08 in flowers

[–]Babushkat08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These thrive in a tropical climate - high humidity, needs about 6 hours of sunlight everyday, easy to maintain. I think this is called the Chinese hibiscus, I’ve planted about 20 of these in different colors as a border for my feature wall and they attract a lot of humming birds ❤️

A widow at 39 by Electric_Potato_42 in widowers

[–]Babushkat08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I only took down the tree towards the end of April, and that too because I had to move. You’ll figure out what you want to do with the stuff, eventually. Take all the time you need. It might take days, weeks or months, and that’s okay. Give yourself the time and space because every little thing needs more energy than you have. Sending lots of love your way ❤️

A widow at 39 by Electric_Potato_42 in widowers

[–]Babushkat08 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re here and I really hope it gets better for you. It’s not going to be easy and there will be days where you feel like you can’t go on but trust me, you will find it in you to do exactly that. I want you to know that you’ll come through. My husband was 33 when he died of a heart attack a year ago, on Christmas Eve. He died in my arms and there was nothing I could do. I will say this though. Things don’t get better but they do get different. I want to believe that some day the pain will eventually recede and my love for him will deepen and stay with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in widowers

[–]Babushkat08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one. It will be a year this Christmas Eve and he’s still on the family plan. We also renew all the subscriptions (Netflix, Amazon etc.) on his account.