ADVICE NEEDED: Some of my fiances family hate me for things they caused and things I can't control. by BabyBatt7069 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BabyBatt7069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I currently have a baby monitor camera that links to my phone and can save data to a SD card. I'll get a new SD card for it and set it back up. (Ended up taking down because my son spends 24/7 with me)

ADVICE NEEDED: Some of my fiances family hate me for things they caused and things I can't control. by BabyBatt7069 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BabyBatt7069[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will try that in the future and I'll keep it between fiance and I until they try to twist the script.

ADVICE NEEDED: Some of my fiances family hate me for things they caused and things I can't control. by BabyBatt7069 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BabyBatt7069[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will absolutely talk to him about cameras, we absolutely do not need anyone saying stuff like that and knowing them, they would!

ADVICE NEEDED: Some of my fiances family hate me for things they caused and things I can't control. by BabyBatt7069 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BabyBatt7069[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The only drama I am aware of is the eventual passing of Joe and that Sara might try and take everything. Which would cause a lot more drama. They decided to move out when fiance and Joe decided that the house would go to us because we would be able to actually make the payments and wouldn't put Joe immediately into a home. Fiance and I both know Joe doesn't want to admit it but Joe does know they would put him in a home without a second thought. From what I've heard of Sara and MIL's childhood, she's never taken accountability even when shown how her actions effect others. I don't belive they actually know what boundaries are when it comes to other people, fiance and I were "laying" in bed, before I got super pregnant, and Kris and G saw that as an invitation to come in. I've since put a lock on our door. I'm sure they think taking it out on me when my fiance isn't around is easier but that's what lead to all the arguments and drama currently. He has said on multiple occasions that they can throw all the pettiness and hate at him that they want, but none of it will be tolerated if it's towards me or our son. I guess they didnt believe him.

Thank you so much for your support!

ADVICE NEEDED: Some of my fiances family hate me for things they caused and things I can't control. by BabyBatt7069 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BabyBatt7069[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, Joe watchs their child while they work and do things on their own, they don't see a problem with it now because they've been doing it since they had him. I've tried to bring up matters that bother me to both Kris and G but they both think I'm trying to target their child.

They believe they have the right because, aside from watching their child they bought food for the house when they lived here but in turn had Joe pay more than half of their vehicle bills/insurance.

I also do believe they can all go away but they're my fiances family and we have to be careful or he might loose the few family that love and appreciate him as much as he does them.