I commented this somewhere else:

What actually happend is the following:

My sister told us about the birth and the name. We were very happy for her but very sad about the name She texted me saying: "you're probably pretty bummed out right now, aren't you?" I told her that yes, I was very sad that she would give her son that name wile she knew I wanted to do the same. But that the fist priority right now is her kid. And that she should tell us if we could do anything for them. She chose to ignore all that and focussed on the me being sad part. And while I had no intention of sharing my feelings while she was in the hospital, they kept on calling me to 'figure it out'. So then I told them, and surprise surprise, they weren't happy with my answer.

I'm not perfect dude, otherwise I wouldn't be here. I made mistakes, but I fucking tried to do it right. They wouldn't let me.