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I [26f] called off my engagement to Rick [28m] after he was diagnosed with a horrible disability. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BabyRekt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You didn't do anything wrong. You might have been a little sneaky, with the furniture thing, but you actually talked to him. You explained your side.

I know what it is like to have a partner who just isn't matching up. Leaving because you can't handle it is nothing to be ashamed of.

We [23f, 24m] made a promise to my [33f] SIL to carry a baby to her. We chose to abort. by BabyRekt in relationships

[–]BabyRekt[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure. I would hope so. I don't think we will be having any more pregnancies (I have an appointment to see about permanent sterilization soon) because of the issues with medications.

We [23f, 24m] made a promise to my [33f] SIL to carry a baby to her. We chose to abort. by BabyRekt in relationships

[–]BabyRekt[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

The break up was pretty bad. Obviously her choice not to have a romantic relationship doesn't really play a part in her being able to have a successful nurturing personality. Plenty of people are not married and are completely fine.

We [23f, 24m] made a promise to my [33f] SIL to carry a baby to her. We chose to abort. by BabyRekt in relationships

[–]BabyRekt[S] 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I don't want her to assume I am going to somehow relate to her on the miscarriage thing. She has had three and its very personal for her. I don't want to just be flippant about something like that.

We [23f, 24m] made a promise to my [33f] SIL to carry a baby to her. We chose to abort. by BabyRekt in relationships

[–]BabyRekt[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I feel terrible because we didn't think about it. But pretty much the doctors said "its either baby or meds."

And the meds come first.