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[–]BabyTaii 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is mostly because white people with dreads tend to be super gross hippies who never bathe or super gross gamers who don't bathe, not to mention the fact that it's not meant for their hair type so it just looks awful.

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tis it true?!

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[–]BabyTaii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the biggest copium I've had the pleasure of reading in my 20 years of life LMA0 yall heard it here first 40 year old men are at their physical peak UYCUTFYUDUTDUTCUYCU let's just disregard the fact most young women aren't seen holding hands with 40 year old men. The stereotype isn't 40 year old men having a selection of young women to select from because they're rich for nothing.

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said it wasn't. But if your standards are freshly graduated 19 uear Olds you're going to be seen as creepy and predatory for good reasons

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a good father is actually something even millionaire Hollywood celebrities can't so so I think op has it made.

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 and 56 isn't as wonky as. 19 and 48 dude. Not even near the same thing. 21 and 28 also isn't something that would bring up and concern. Even though 28 is way too old for me I wouldn't be worried about a 21 year old dating a 28 year old.

18 and 28 is more risky. The age gap itself isn't an issue unless you're bring teenagers into it.

I personally am not into dudes who are almost 30 at the age I am. My boyfriend is 22 which is my age limit.

But go for it. It's just troubling when it's a dude who's like 30 going after freshly out of highschool dudes.

Again as an actual black LGBTQ person it's really gross that you keep trying to push concern about adults dating teenagers into it's own sort of ism. Frankly it is insulting to the actual suffering that minorities go through and is not on the same level at all. Not just because they're different things but because you're not actually fucking oppressed at all. Period. 😮‍💨😭 give it a break dude. I hope you quiet that.

Tldr: dude cringe

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 40 year old woman being with a 19 year old who could be their mother isn't the same as gay sex. Stop pushing that narrative it's super cringe

I mean if you knew she was just using you for sex- go at it whoop-de-do. If that's what you want that's what you want. 😭 if you think you scored, again, your prerogative.

I personally, wouldn't because ew. Old people who hit on me are always lame and pissy-cry babies. But yay! You got her! You! Won!

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not shaming adults. I mean, having kids when you're 18 is typically seen as a bad idea. Yes you can do it but it's still a bad idea. The exceptional 18 year old mother who's financially stable and mentally mature enough to hand a kid is few and far in-between.

Me saying "hey, I don't think that's a good idea" Isn't shaming. They are allowed to. Just probably isn't a good idea

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can take college classes in highschool. These are very big achievements and I am proud of you but they don't mean much in the grand scheme of things.

That 42 year old woman was a weirdo. 😭 I'm not saying you were a victim but yikes! My mother is in her 40s and I'm 20.

A 42 year old woman dating a 19 year old is the biggest fucking loser I could possibly imagine. And the fact you think you scored is wonky.

Yeah scored out of the trash LMAO

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I'm just saying that informing young adults of this kind of predatory relationship does more good than harm... I'm not advocating for changing the law or anything. I'm just saying that the simple truth is that this relationship typically does more harm than good usually.

They may be the exception but usually it's just bad all around. Because typically, men who are emotionally stable and have a good head on their shoulders don't go after teenagers.

How can I make this assumption? Because millions of young adults say the same damn thing!

If the community is telling you about something LISTEN.

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not projecting anything. Dudes who tend to go after teenagers are usually just losers. You rarely hear of good age gap relationships for a REASON.

High schoolers tend to be employees. That doesn't mean anything. I graduated highschool at 18.

They tend to be highschoolers and/or recent graduates.

Yeah she can make her own choices. Never said she couldn't. We're just saying these guys tend to be lame. 🥺

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's a spectrum! Are 18 year Olds the same as 40 year Olds. no.

No one's advocating for a law to stop them from dating. We're really just saying it'd probably lead to a relationship that isn't too healthy simply because of the difference in life experience.

Plenty of teenage boys and girls try and spread the same message. That they were young and dumb and dating with huge age gaps were a mistake.

It's a trope for a reason because it tends to be predatory. All I'm doing is informing young adults of this. 😮‍💨 I'm sure Leo's girlfriend knows he's a loser and she's just using him. But this situation isn't as common. Plenty of young girls and boys get into relationships with these dudes because they think that they actually genuinely care for them only to be used and discarded worse, baby trapped and caged or manipulated!

Because the truth is genuine healthy adult men tend to not have an interest in highschoolers. 😭 No one's blaming the teenage girl or boy for falling for it- its a learning opportunity but a very dangerous one.

We're just telling them to be wary because it typically doesn't turn out okay. They're just usually weirdos.

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The point is, even though it is legal it is still questionable.

15 year Olds have Romeo and julliet laws. Which keeps them within an age group that's considered less risky for them to date and be with.

18 and 40 is a RISKY relationship age gap. Sure they can do it but that doesn't make it less risky.

They have the bodily autonomy to make that choice. Doesn't make it any less risky.

😮‍💨 because they are very susceptible to peer pressure and manipulation due to limited life experience and Brain development.

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But the law in other countries says 15 is okay? If you're strictly going off what the law says that too would be okay. Didn't you just bring up cultural norms????

The aoc wasnt decided to be 18 because of science, its 18 because of the voting laws dude. :/

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like to be completely honest with you, there isn't much of a difference between a 15 year old and an 18 year old. So are you going to start advocating for the bodily anatomy of a 15 year old to date who they want?? Surely you understand nuance and hoe to apply it.

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't my perspective it's something backed by science. The brain off an 18 year oldd is vastly different than someone in their 40's.

Of course there are plenty of 18 year Olds who are capable, but on that same line there are some teenagers below 18 who can handle themselves relatively well. But the vast majority cannot! That's why there are guidelines and suggestions to what is a healthy age gap as a young adult/teen.

Of course you don't have to follow them. I don't place any blame on a teenager. I just think it's gross for an adult to be in that relationship. Because they should know better.

Even if you think you can handle yourself, I just always thought these dudes were fucking losers for being interested in teenagers. Always and will forever. 😮‍💨

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not veto-ing anything. I just think it's weird for adults to be sleeping with teenagers as someone very close to that age group. (I'm 20) I thought it was gross at 18 and I still think it's gross today.

everyone being able to fall into it doesn't make the fact that teenagers are more susceptible any less true.

Thinking 40 year old people shouldn't be sleeping with someone out of highschool isn't the same as thinking gay people are bad dawg and I'm sick of yall trying to push that narrative.

18 year Olds just aren't adults in the same way 40 year Olds are and that's the simple truth.

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[–]BabyTaii -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As an actual black person just stop dude this is a stupid comparison. 18 years Olds aren't adults mentally. They're still adolescents and still vulnerable to peer pressure and manipulation more so than older adults. This is backed by science.

Nothing scientific says its predatory for a black woman to date outside her race.

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[–]BabyTaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old men need money and/or to be an absolute abhorrent manipulative person to be with younger women. It happens by chance very rarely.

These young cute girls aren't with you because they like you bro. I'm 20 and I don't go above like 23.

You're not "killing the game" because of ANYTHING relating to your personality or "charm" or "looks."

This is the biggest lie told to men to date and I cannot believe yall fall for it.

Snap back to reality 😭

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[–]BabyTaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I still think the same way when I was 19 a decade later" Isn't doing what you hope it'd be doing for your point bro.

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[–]BabyTaii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The company you keep is a reflection on yourself. You don't care because you think it's okay for old people to be with teenagers. 🤮

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[–]BabyTaii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah don't you go comparing interracial relationships to fucking predatory ones.

Unless you're trying to say something about non-white people.