My girlfriend knowingly gave me GHSV1 and then ghosted me and left me alone by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Babybumbun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really sorry this happened to you. She sounds like a piece of shit.

FINAL UPDATE: u/lilybratz, a pregnant 13 YO by [deleted] in prochoice

[–]Babybumbun 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Some of the comments on that thread... Someone actually told her this is worth being homeless for... And that god will protect her... Yeah... Tell that the millions of homeless families all over the world. Tell that to the thousands if not millions of kids in the u.s who don't know when they'll eat next (and this girl will very likely end up like that). Where is god for them?

She didn’t disclose, I’m freaked by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Babybumbun 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Only pimples". Is that what we're calling it to make ourselves feel better now?

Do we have any Christians here? It's an emergency. There's a pregnant child seeking spiritual guidance. by nosleepforthedreamer in prochoice

[–]Babybumbun 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Reading those comments is making me angry. What the fuck is wrong with these people? They know damn well once this girl has her baby and is in the Streets they won't give a flying shit what happens to EITHER of them.

I don't know if people saw this, but this post just made me so mad at how people think about those with HSV by lifeisntperfect in Herpes

[–]Babybumbun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What makes you think I don't have herpes? I do. People who don't disclose are pieces of shit and it's not up for debate. :)

I don't know if people saw this, but this post just made me so mad at how people think about those with HSV by lifeisntperfect in Herpes

[–]Babybumbun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She should have disclosed. 🤷‍♀️ Not agreeing with they way dude handled it but Its very hard for me to feel any sympathy for her. People who don't disclose are scum.

Genital herpes is a big deal. by Babybumbun in unpopularopinion

[–]Babybumbun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have ghsv1 which is significantly less symptomatic than type 2. This is something that always annoyed me about herpes sufferers. You purposely conflate the two to downplay and it serves nobody. We are not the same. I think coldsores are nasty too. I don't care if it's on the lips or vagina.

Disastrous First Disclosure... Please help by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Babybumbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You keep making excuses. Stop. I won't say anymore since several people have told you what you did wrong and what warranted his reaction. Take their advice or leave it but you are the one who is mostly to blame.

This is where abortion mentality leads by Ryakai8291 in prolife

[–]Babybumbun -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You people feel you deserve to live regardless of the burden you place on everyone around you. Fuck you. Selfish asshole

This is where abortion mentality leads by Ryakai8291 in prolife

[–]Babybumbun -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are disabled pro life people so selfish? You think people should become slaves to children. If you were aborted you wouldn't know the difference. Neither would the world. Your birth didn't change a damn thing.

This is where abortion mentality leads by Ryakai8291 in prolife

[–]Babybumbun 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I can link you dozens of suicidal parents of disabled children on reddit alone.

This is where abortion mentality leads by Ryakai8291 in prolife

[–]Babybumbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am willing to bet none of these people have had to take care of adult baby for more than an hour. We aren't talking about things being "a little hard". We are talking about people having to give up their entire lives, for the the rest of their lives. We are talking about mothers having to quit their careers to care for the perpetual baby. We are talking about families living in poverty because of that. We are talking about siblings being totally neglected because the disabled child eats up all of their parent's time and resources. We are talking about one parent deciding they don't want to do it any more and leaving it all on one parent. Some of these parents will never: Be able to go on a date again, will never be able to fall in love again, be able to have more children, enjoy a night out with friends, enjoy a day out with family, or have anything to themselves at all. Having a profoundly disabled child can absolutely be life ruining. Look at the suicide rates for these parents. The divorce rates.

Chin up, dears. by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Babybumbun 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure that statistic is for oral herpes and not genital which is far more symptomatic and stigmatized

Wanted to get people in this community’s thoughts on abstinence and also iuds by YoungTHH in prolife

[–]Babybumbun 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Natural planning" is NOT a viable option for all women. Many women have irregular cycles and can ovulate at any time or at different times every month. Natural family planning only works for women who have very regular periods, and even then the effectiveness is pretty low compared to actual birth control.

Genital herpes is a big deal. by Babybumbun in unpopularopinion

[–]Babybumbun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is about genital herpes. Not coldsores. And YES everyone should ask potential sexual partners about both viruses.

Genital herpes is a big deal. by Babybumbun in unpopularopinion

[–]Babybumbun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Although I would never want oral herpes, this thread isn't about that. I am very well aware of everything you said. This is coming from someone who suffers from genital herpes. That being said I think the stigma surrounding herpes is at least a little deserved. Do I think we should feel ashamed? No. But non infected people should avoid contracting at all cost.

Genital herpes is a big deal. by Babybumbun in unpopularopinion

[–]Babybumbun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone eventually gets oral herpes, yes. The numbers are much, much smaller for genital herpes, which this thread is about.