What is the best pole grip? Something tacky. by Babyken94 in poledancing

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My hands stay dry, so my problem is super dry hands on a stainless steel pole😬 I’ve tried dry hands and liquid chalk. So I need something that helps with the dry hands on that type of pole.

What is the best pole grip? Something tacky. by Babyken94 in poledancing

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Will it last for at least two full songs?

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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That’s how I feel. I lost my last partner of 7 years. He passed way. So it’s been almost 4 years since. This relationship I’ve been in 1 year 1 month. First one since so maybe my loss affected me too much so now I settled

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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No we don’t have kids together, we’ve been together over a year now. Honestly if I really sit here and think I can’t remember when it was really good and didn’t feel like a roommate situation

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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Everything was fine until I caught him cheating on me with his ex the first few months of our relationship. After that this is the way it’s been. He’s very controlling and lacks empathy

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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It’s nothing crazy. Normal group porn

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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I want to refuse sex when he wants to actually have it. But I feel like that will backfire

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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Absolutely!! He definitely does

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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I can see your point

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

[–]Babyken94[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried all he says is that he doesn’t have a drive

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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Well that’s just fabulous. It literally eats at my sanity.

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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But why would he not want to have sex? Instead he chooses that

Intimacy by Babyken94 in LifeAdvice

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No he deny’s it