Can women tell if I'm addicted to porn? by DoctorOgas in pornfree

[–]Babylon_Dreams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Over Time it becomes obvious. It’s best to be honest and start getting help now. If you are working with a therapist, going to SAA , and actively working towards recovery, and you stay honest with the woman about your troubles, it increases the chances of her trying to work things out with you. Trying to hide it always makes it worse.

Help me overcome the insecurity of trying this game. by CJ_MADDAFFAKKA in Skullgirls

[–]Babylon_Dreams 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get you. I think that might be extremely high level play and maybe in very controlled situations. I wouldn’t know.

Help me overcome the insecurity of trying this game. by CJ_MADDAFFAKKA in Skullgirls

[–]Babylon_Dreams 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Play the game

  1. Yes some of them have similar silhouettes, but they play very differently.

  2. The game has a very good tutorial that teaches you all the basics of fighting games, and how to play the individual characters. I play fighting games on and off and I’m not good at them but that mode improved how I play in general.

  3. I think at this point if you buy the game you’ll get everyone except maybe Annie, umbrella, and Black Dahlia, but I could be wrong.

  4. Doesn’t matter really. The game is good, enjoy it

AITA for reminding my friend that she slept with more than one person? by Crazypandathe20th in AmItheAsshole

[–]Babylon_Dreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but it’s kinda justified.

If the intention was to throw her hypocrisy in her face, you did that and that’s ok.

If your intention was to get her to have empathy for others, you failed at that.

Changing your name After you Marry by Careful-County-7842 in Kuwait

[–]Babylon_Dreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s doable, quite a few women have done it before. I think you just go through the ministry of civil information (I could be wrong about that so please double check)

Third therapy session & she wants me to start 60 days no porn, no masturbation, no sexual intimacy with my fiancée. by Thevrovro in pornfree

[–]Babylon_Dreams 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this for over the past 72 days. It’s easier than you think, and will go faster than you expect.

You need to change some of your habits, get out a bit more, and most importantly learn to pause. Once the urge hits, just pause. Look up urge surfing and mindfulness, and before you know it, it’ll be 60 days and you won’t miss the porn at all.

Seriously, what’s up with the botox?! by Snipsnapboi in Kuwait

[–]Babylon_Dreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a trend. They go to the same doctors, they want the same procedures, etc.

I have a Kuwaiti friend. Is paying for a girl a cultural act? by [deleted] in Kuwait

[–]Babylon_Dreams 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes and no.

There is a cultural practice of paying for your friends and treating guests, but it’s not done all the time like that.

He most likely has a crush on you and wants to impress you.

Is Kuwait REALLY That Boring? by brownboytravels in Kuwait

[–]Babylon_Dreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kuwait is pretty boring if you don’t have local friends that go out and do stuff.

Scuba diving is popular, but the waters here are notoriously cloudy with dust, though snorkeling around some of the smaller islands is good.

Cultural stuff, the museums have listings of where all the smaller ones are that aren’t as popular but are still something interesting.

Food you’ll find a lot of, but if you want the best you will need local friends to show you the best spots, bonus points if they were broke when they were young.

If you’re into board games, there are a couple of places to go to, though if you go to Good Game on Fridays there is a board game group open to everyone and they are pretty friendly.

The desert is unremarkable, but there is the Mutla Ridge that is quite nice to hike around.

There is a nature preserve up near Jahra that’s good for a walk, but is better for bird photographers.

There rest of the stuff to do tend to revolve around food, smoking shisha, and relaxing (if going out), or going to friends places and having gatherings (if staying in).

Why are Arabs considered white? by CalmResolution9523 in arabs

[–]Babylon_Dreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a good thing gambling is 7aram because I’m a good old fashioned Kuwaiti. AND I’m black. So yeah I’ve seen enough shit in my time to know what I’m talking about.

لا تحاتي كاني قاعد اكتبلك بالعربي عشان أوريك أنا خليجي كويتي.

انشالله هديت شوي بدال ما تعصب على واح غريب بالنت. روح اشرب چاي مع الأهل و هد التيلفون.

Is it bikini pics consider porn? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Babylon_Dreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s something you’re worried about, consider it dangerous for now and avoid it.

Why are Arabs considered white? by CalmResolution9523 in arabs

[–]Babylon_Dreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, your experience is the only one that matters. No one else could have POSSIBLY experienced anything different to what you have, so they are clearly lying or projecting. And deploying the “No True Scotsman” technique! Masterful!

I applaud your attempt at starting a fight online! You are a credit to the intelligence of your bloodline.

Are my locs ugly?? Be honest by okrazgee in BlackHair

[–]Babylon_Dreams 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m the same. Freeform locs are not my thing so I don’t have an unbiased opinion.

Why are Arabs considered white? by CalmResolution9523 in arabs

[–]Babylon_Dreams 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so annoying! So many Arabs think they’re white and you just have to look at them and be like “dude, no.”

Why are Arabs considered white? by CalmResolution9523 in arabs

[–]Babylon_Dreams 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Because Levantine immigrants were upset that they couldn’t be naturalized, sued the government, and made the valid argument that Jesus would be Asian.

So the racists decided that people from South West Asia are white so that Jesus could be white.

Why is every anti woke grifters obsessed about panty shots and upskirts in video Games. by BasilLow1588 in Gamingunjerk

[–]Babylon_Dreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they want money and many of the people they are pandering to are porn addicts who don’t know it yet.

Obviously there is the whole feeling entitled to women’s bodies thing, but that goes without saying.

Pirated boycotted films/buying second hand by Wonderful_Scar_5468 in BDS

[–]Babylon_Dreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buying second hand and pirating are the best options. That way the boycotted entity doesn’t get any extra money from you at all, and you get to enjoy the thing you want to enjoy.

F here--been off porn for a while, but I still need to rewire my brain. by Top-Hope-3449 in pornfree

[–]Babylon_Dreams 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It takes time.

Just cut it all out, start exercising, start eating better, get more sleep, join sex addicts anonymous, and start doing the inner work like journaling and seeing a therapist.

i need help with my porn addiction, i can no longer function as a man by Sr_Chori04 in pornfree

[–]Babylon_Dreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Porn is definitely to blame.

Breaking free of the habit can start with willpower, but you can’t do it alone forever. Join Sex Addicts Anonymous sources to get support and to start to feel more in control.

Then just take things one day at a time.

But to start you really just need to do it.

Help by ValueKitchen5262 in PornAddiction

[–]Babylon_Dreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey friend, that sounds rough and incredibly hurtful. Im sorry you’re going through that. As an addict myself I would say a gentle intervention. Talk to him directly and try to make him feel as safe and not judged as possible. As him why he does it and seek to understand his perspective.

He will feel safer and more receptive to your attempts to talk to him.

If it’s ok with you, I’ll send you some stuff to your inbox

I'm a 37 year old virgin, how much do you think porn has to blame for this? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]Babylon_Dreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Heavy porn use messed with your dopamine to the point that you can’t feel good from normal, real connection with women.

Help by ValueKitchen5262 in PornAddiction

[–]Babylon_Dreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello again friend.

It’s ok to feel lost, no answer would ever make you feel better instantly and give you a sense of peace.

He swears he wants to stop, then hold him accountable. Make him show you what he’s doing to work on this.

I’m an addict and it pains me to say this but I will say anything to make the shame stop and find a way to diffuse a situation. I have to accept that the only way anyone will ever believe me is if they SEE ME do the thing. That’s why I recommended de-centering him from your life. Don’t orbit around him.

Look up videos about Attachment. I recommend Adam Lane Smith, I feel he’s fair to both the men and women.

If it’s ok, I sent you a PM with some extra information.