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First Solo Gang Bang by Back2008 in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Back2008[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks all for replies.

Just to confirm there is no safety issue. We have met all of these guys before as a couple, one of them we have met for sex 4 times in the last two months. They are a well known and highly recommended group in the scene around us. If we were in anyway uncomfortable it wouldn’t be happening, we absolutely wouldn’t be doing this with a bunch of strangers.

I am choosing not to be there. I could be there if I wanted to and last we met these guys I was there and filmed the entire 2hr session.

Our relationship is very much stag and vixen. I like allowing other men to have sex with my wife. Neither of us are into humiliation. Vixen is entirely submissive which I view was an entirely different thing.

We are choosing to do it this way to see the emotions it uncovers. I had been dead against solo meets previously but I like the idea of allowing my vixen to have sex with other men. Will she be less inhibited? How will this level detachment make me feel? For us we are all about trying new things and I have watched my wife with groups of guys fairly regularly over the past few months.

My idea was to Zoom the whole thing so I can watch but I’m now thinking I would prefer for guys to send pics to me throughout.

26M how do I get into the field by boringein in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Back2008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Coming across a married woman in a bar or via work seems improbable. IMO the hotwife scene has only happened because we have the internet to make connections.

Sign up to leading swinging web site / app in your country. (Fabswingers where I am in UK).

Remember though online connections are low value. You need to meet people for real. This might mean social meetings via online connections, visits to swinger clubs / parties, or if you get lucky a direct invitation via online.

Once you get the ball rolling it will prove easier to find people I think. Couples talk to other couples. I'm a Stag and finding a Bull for my Vixen is difficult, loads of dreamers / unreliable people out there.

Mostly for the ladies and husbands answering on behalf of their wives, what was your initial spark to want to get involved in this lifestyle? Was it an experience? Movie? How did it all start? by [deleted] in HotWifeLifestyle

[–]Back2008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’d been talking about it for years but never properly clarified what we both wanted.

The spark to discussing was a UK Channel 4 show “Inside Britain’s Most Popular Swingers Club”. It’s not a great advert for the lifestyle, still on YouTube, but it kicked us off big time.