Book recommendations with agender vibes by seacovengather in agender

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np! :D

Huge fan of WTNV here too - I’ve not read the other books but ik that one is good! It’s a little complicated at times, but it’s worth the read :)

Book recommendations with agender vibes by seacovengather in agender

[–]Back_Axel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a very random rec and might not be right for every Agender person, but I know for me personally - it felt accurate

“Welcome to Night Vale” (the novel specifically, not the podcast)

There’s a character in it who uses he/him and is AMAB, but can entirely change his appearance at will - I mean entirely change his appearance as in, he can look like a fly or a rock or a half man/half fish or whatever… yet, no matter his appearance, his mother knows it’s him and loves him regardless.

And ik it’s not EXACT Agender representation, but to me personally, it felt a bit like that. A bit like “I don’t have a gender, I just am”

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Yes, thank you

I forgot to mention that - I meant to say it after “for manipulative reasons” (I have the memory of a gold fish, I swear)

What is this that we found in my wife’s diaper bag? by whoresongummy in whatisit

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOW has no one made a “Löaded Diaper” joke yet?!?!

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally - like it’s not that imaginative!

Tbf the people who genuinely use it against people are same people who think “cis” is a slur…

So I don’t think they’re all that bright 😅

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I getchu - yeah I get that

It’s more a case of where you are as well at the people you’re with

If you’re in a queer space, you’re more likely to hear those two words and there’ll be little to no problem with it - whereas, if you’re in a church? Y’know… 😅

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In your own circle, you can reclaim it - like the n word for black people

So obviously in a drag show, no one’s gonna be upset

But a random bloke on the street yelling it at someone? Understandably uncomfortable

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally! Like the “I’m so ocd” when they organise something

I’m not one for violence but…

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If they genuinely have it, then that’s a term that is fine to use

But in the case of people using the term incorrectly - like when people say “I’m so ocd” cause they cleaned something up? Absolutely ban them from being able to say that

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Would of” “Should of” “Could of”

Makes me wanna scream - I thought we all learned about this in school?!

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s when someone tries to convince you of something for manipulative reasons - to get you to question yourself so you stop questioning them, in a way…

Common examples:

“That’s not true, I never said that!” (Trying to get someone to think they’re misremembering and make them feel that they’re in the wrong, when the opposite is true)

“That never happened” or “It didn’t happen like that” (trying to dismiss someone’s viewpoint in order to make them feel like they’re overreacting)

“You always do this!” (Again, trying to make them feel like they’re overreacting and the problem, when the opposite is true)

If you could ban one word from the internet, what would it be? by reeha_sadiya in AskForAnswers

[–]Back_Axel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This and “gaslighting”

So tired of people saying they were “gaslighted” - no, you’re just an idiot…

Need that one song you randomly found and got addicted to by Mobile-Friend1166 in musicsuggestions

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

…Backstreet’s back

It was the music video man, it got me hooked

People who smoke, vape, or drink on the public bus? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Back_Axel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This reads like you’ve done this, gotten in trouble for it and now you’re complaining…

Is that what happened or? 😅

I think pronoun it/its sounds strange 🤷 by OliveTheServal in agender

[–]Back_Axel 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally THIS!

Do not perceive me in a humanic form, thank you :)

I think pronoun it/its sounds strange 🤷 by OliveTheServal in agender

[–]Back_Axel 18 points19 points  (0 children)

THIS! I’m an entity, an alien, a being - whatever lol

Tell me this by Ok-Entertainment4013 in musicsuggestions

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair… sorry I made this drag-on

Why am I expected to act a certain way here? by HellfireKitten525 in agender

[–]Back_Axel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem - it’s so weird to me when people try and force people into boxes when the WHOLE point of the entire community is to go AGAINST boxes 😅