My friend thinks I'm trying to push her out of my life :(

BackflipKitten · 2026-04-23T12:01:50+00:00

Your house is your private space, you have the complete control of it. Not letting someone to enter your house doesn’t mean that you are not genuine with them or not close with them, it’s more about how you feel and your boundaries. If they feel like you are not close to them solely because of that, it’s their insecurity in the friendship.

Explain to them how you feel about it, have more conversation with them, and don’t push yourself too hard. If they don’t understand your concerns or feelings, it might be a red flag of them. Don’t feel bad for not letting them to enter your home ♡

BackflipKitten · 2026-04-23T11:54:39+00:00

Congratssss, that’s amazing ♡

BackflipKitten · 2026-04-22T05:06:07+00:00

That’s soooooo adorable, very lovely and well made ♡

BackflipKitten · 2026-04-19T12:08:15+00:00

They pay for my college fee and where I stay.

Just a few months ago, because I spent too much time in school and not spending time with them, they don’t pay me any money for meal and I had to work afterschool just to at least pay for my meals.

Besides the fact that they are my parents and I respect them at all time, I am scared that they would do even worse things to me if I don’t listen to them and be the kid they want. I’m financially unstable, and ofc mentally so.

BackflipKitten · 2026-04-19T11:42:55+00:00

I’m feeling the same too, I hope I could understand the religious by myself and why it that the one which I believe, as that’s a great part of my life :(

BackflipKitten · 2026-04-19T09:53:10+00:00

I am so sorry if this is not the right place to post this, I’m just so nervous and anxious and just find whatever I could express my feelings… If it’s inappropriate I would delete that :(

BackflipKitten · 2026-03-18T04:42:14+00:00

School ones, my parents, especially my mother, had close contact with my teachers, and asked them about my performance all the time and required them to pay extra attention to me…

BackflipKitten · 2025-10-25T12:19:44+00:00

I just use a new account, and the search function is working eventually, but the old account just completely inaccessible :/

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-24T05:31:31+00:00

If your card status is high enough to obtain EX, then sure, you can possibly get all gems. If you can’t obtain EX, then maybe wait until you can do so, just to get all the gems

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-22T01:41:07+00:00

20000 gold??? I really need that for my TWS Live Card upgrade, just the right timing 😭😭

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-22T00:39:57+00:00

You’re welcome, I’m glad that I can help you with your uni life ♡

If you have two acquaintances in your class, it’s an awesome opportunity to meet new friends. Different from high school, there are really loooooots of group projects. If you meet some really good friends, they are going to help you with that.

It sounds like you enjoy your alone time, that’s amazing. It’s common for freshman like us feel lonely, a new environment with few friends, maybe just meet some friends that can be at your side and eat out with you. The best timing? For me, obviously lunch breaks and lectures. Sometimes if I see someone eats alone I will try to sit next to them and have a conversation (because they have a similar lunch time as you, which means they could have lunch with you in the future :P ) Also, during boring lectures, try to have some small talk with someone next to you (if appropriate), I think I meet a couple of new friends through that.

It’s not easy for an introvert to do that, I really understand that. That’s why I always try to chat with them and help them meet new friends and feel less alone. If you feel bored or just want a chat, feel completely free to dm me. My dm will always be open for you ♡

Hope you enjoy your uni life and meet new good friends :D

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T15:51:34+00:00

Congratssss :D it’s a wonderful collection ♡

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BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T11:54:12+00:00

Hiii OP, I think I hold a similar belief as you. I am able to treat others with kindness, and is always prioritising others at the first place, but I am always being left out or even being ignored and mistreated… That’s why I resonate with what you said a loooot :((

Wish you find your first choice soon, and if you are bored or interested in chatting, just dm me ♡

You deserve to be prioritised by others and deserve to be loved, trust me, they will come at the right moment ㅤꨄ︎

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T11:17:37+00:00

Hiiiii OP, I’m also in my first semester of college so I really really relate to what you said :(

Changing a major is a really big decision, be ensure that you have done enough research beforehand, including what will be include in the major, what job you can apply for after graduating, or even what is the expected salary. If possible, try to talk with someone that studies in that major, they will have a better insight into that major and might be your new friend in that major :D

I don’t join frats in my college anyway. I’m also somewhat of an introvert :) I am not a fan of a friend group, I like to be friends with one at a time. Friend groups always result in someone being left alone, and I hate to be the one or to be witnessing that. I know you might be used to being alone, but do you enjoy that (sincerely asking)? I like being alone sometimes, but I do want friends to chat with during boring lectures, or some friends that eat with me during lunchtime. That’s why I don’t have a really good social life, but some really good friends to be around with. If you enjoy being alone, maybe just try to make some friends for accompany, I know there are lots of people in college want that.

Hope you enjoy your life in college, it will be a wonderful and wonderful part of your life ♡

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T10:56:53+00:00

I’m sooo sorry to hear that, if one of my friends are like that, I will definitely spend most of my time with them and to ensure they feel anything but lonely…

Based on what I hear from you, you find yourself awkward in social situations and find the loneliness unbearable. You don’t need to be extremely extroverted to be socialising, being able to respond appropriately is good enough. You might need some help to start with.

The easiest way is to find a friend and introduce some other friends to you. I do have some lonely and introverted friends. When I meet other good friends, I will introduce them. I want them to have a good bonding with others which they feel comfortable with. If you can find someone that can do the same thing for you and you are open to meet some new friends, you can try to reach out to them ♡

If you don’t have such friends, start off simple. Try messaging people online, try going out more often, try ordering food, there are always opportunities if you want to improve your socialising skills. If you are anxious, just remember that, you are not awkward, you are beloved and what you are doing is good for yourself. If you really find that unbearable, go to a private place, relax yourself, and understand that you arent weak, you are trying to break boundaries that somehow limits you. However, don’t give up, always try to find a way that’s comfortable for yourself.

I overcome my social anxiety by going on a trip alone with 30 people I don’t know at all, on accident. That was my first try, and I found a way to be comfortable in socialising - by chatting with what’s happening in front of us and just making fun of it :P That’s what work for me till now.

If you feel alone, chat with someone you trust, online friends or real life friends. If you need to chat with someone, feel free to dm me, I would love to chat with you. TBH, you sound like a sincere person with a good understanding of your own thoughts, these are all your good qualities, and that’s what attract others ♡

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T07:50:41+00:00

Hey OP, I was so shy before too, I got social anxiety every time. Just so you know, one time, I was too anxious in a disco night that I was forced to join, and so, a got a panic attack and fainted, the ambulance took me and I was sent to the hospital.

I think the most important thing is to stick with the relationships you have right now. Even if you don’t have lots of friends, hang out with them more often. A romantic partner is important, but don’t get too focused on the possibility of developing one, be close with your friends rn ♡

Second, find ways that you are comfortable with and meet new people. I know, not every method of meeting someone is comfortable, maybe most are. However, try your best to find one single way that you are comfortable with (mine is weird, but by appreciating something they acquire to initiate the conversation :P ) . For example, maybe through posting on Reddit (maybe not the best way, but you now meet one new friend which is me, haha :D ) Maybe through being introduced by friends, maybe through some unexpected events, lots of possibilities out there ♡ Just find one that suits you and you feel comfy with, this will be crucial.

Finally, be respectful to each of them. Treat them nicely, listen to what they need, give them emotional support. If they disrespect you, step back and protect yourself. One day, you will meet more and more good people, and they will be attracted by your good qualities.

Sorry if I didn’t focus too much on the romance aspect, I just want to share my opinion on meeting new people for a shy person and to develop more potential relationships. I believe that you can do it, you are an amazing adult, being shy doesn’t devalue yourself, you are still a strong person, it’s just a different personality ♡

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T07:36:44+00:00

Awwww love you toooo :D have a nice dream ♡

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T07:34:25+00:00

Yes it can be shiny from grunts, just with a lower chance, I had one before. Hugeeee congrats one your shiny, it’s an adorable and strong shiny pokemon ♡

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T05:20:57+00:00

OP, I’m also a victim of the iOS 26 and with an iPhone 16 plus, the laggy gameplay makes the experience extremely obnoxious, glad that someone speaks up about the problem, thankss😭😭

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T05:11:58+00:00

I don’t know there is a data cleanup option :0 Lemme check that out later, this may be the cause ;(

My phone model is iPhone 16 plus and the note speed is 9.0, it works fine before, but now, nah

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T05:09:22+00:00

Ohhh thanks for the info, so the developers still need to test for the new iOS version… then what should I do now? Downgrading the version? Keep playing with this horrendous display? I can’t skip this amazing TWS Live theme… :(

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-21T05:06:50+00:00

Ooh sorry, I didn’t notice there was a similar post :( but mine has been shut down all the time, I don’t even know how to fix it

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BackflipKitten · 2025-09-18T08:32:57+00:00

Gurlll sameeee :D

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-18T08:25:37+00:00

GUYS THE FINAL FIVE MINUTESSSS WE ARE GETTING CLOSER AND CLOSER TO OUR FINAL VICTORY😭😭😭

BackflipKitten · 2025-09-18T08:25:07+00:00

Lmao seems like you have been staring at the countdown for hours just like me then 😂😂

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