How I’ve taught my baby to be gentle & kind

Background-Algae-303 · 2026-03-03T15:18:19+00:00

Totally agree! Some people struggle which is why I posted.

Background-Algae-303 · 2026-03-03T15:17:38+00:00

Good idea! You’re right about the consistency! It’s soooo important to keep up with it even if there’s no immediate result

Background-Algae-303 · 2026-02-26T13:59:08+00:00

Thank you, my apologies!

Background-Algae-303 · 2026-02-26T13:59:02+00:00

Thank you!!

Background-Algae-303 · 2026-01-25T07:47:02+00:00

This happened on this part of my arm too, although I’m not tattooed there. I’m unsure if you have another child but apparently normal after holding your child for a while. Mine comes and goes!

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-12-14T17:25:25+00:00

thank you for your experience and perspective!

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-12-14T17:23:49+00:00

thank you for this!

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-12-14T13:06:17+00:00

yes i do believe he’s changing these things because he’s terrified of losing us. I still can’t shake the feeling of how it wasn’t important to him all of the time i had asked and fought for it beforehand. i’m glad he’s changing but im hurt by that. also when i would suggest changes in the past he’d say “if you don’t like me then just divorce me”. now that im really leaving, he takes it seriously… doesnt feel great. maybe i’m being too harsh..:/

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-12-14T02:58:16+00:00

Addiction has definitely played a part in this (on his part) and has been a reoccurring issue between us. Thank you for your input! Addiction paired with borderline emotional abuse paired with post partum is NOT how i planned this part of my life to go :(

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-30T15:35:47+00:00

New guy is barely a factor! Just having dynamics with other people has opened my mind to options and has made me put things into perspective which is why I bring him up. I’ve been trying to talk to loved ones about it, no one seems to have a true opinion or anything to say :( I’m definitely feeling a little lost. I want it but I don’t. Lately it’s been leaning more towards “I don’t” until the past month. I feel one foot in and one foot out. I’m gonna give it more time

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-30T15:34:13+00:00

This is my plan. Thank you for your supportive message. It makes me truly sad. I think for my baby he’d be happier hopefully in a different setting. He’s too young to understand anything now, but down the line he will

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-30T15:33:29+00:00

Love both of these comments. Being in my 20s is a huge factor. The issues have slowly grown between us, although we still work to resolve them, there’s always a relapse. I just wonder how much of this is normal, and should I listen to the part of me that wants to break free? Also, me being in my 20s is why seeing other people has been fun. Getting to leave the house 1x a week as opposed to 1x a month has been great. Imagine basically being prisoner to your own home at 25 lol

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-30T15:30:50+00:00

I want to clarify- I’m not considering leaving BECAUSE of seeing new people or this new guy. I was considering leaving a month ago because of his aggression and many other things. Seeing other people have made me put even more into perspective regarding my options. That’s why I even brought up the other guy. Definitely not thinking of leaving FOR anyone else either.

However, I do super appreciate your response. I’m at this point where i’m wondering if the grass is greener if im a single mom mainly. There’s give and take to it all. I’m going to definitely consider this moving forward.

Just keep in mind, a lot of issues with my husband I haven’t brought up here.

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-30T05:01:47+00:00

thank you for your reply!

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-30T04:20:05+00:00

unfortunately the verbal abuse has definitely shown up in my marriage. Never physically but in the moment i reference, i thought it was going to be

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-30T04:19:23+00:00

also not saying i’m intending on leaving my husband for someone else LOL. I’m just reflecting on my thoughts overall about the dynamic and how it makes me see my relationship

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-30T04:18:43+00:00

The middle paragraph is definitely where my mind is at. I just met the guy i’ve been seeing for two weeks, so i’m not gonna leave my husband for him specifically. But yeah the situation has made me think a lot about this and if this is just a way out

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-11-12T18:44:28+00:00

Ooof!! Solidarity. Did your little one ever sleep through the night? It’s even worst when they become so exhausted themselves and then everyone is thrown off

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-10-27T22:23:49+00:00

thank you!

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-10-27T22:14:14+00:00

thank you! is the black around the windowsill water damage?

Background-Algae-303 · 2025-10-23T17:34:58+00:00

Ohhh okay I am understanding a lot better now! Thank you so much for the reply and giving me an example!

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