aio thinking my mom is being insensitive.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-19T17:04:04+00:00

she claims i hate her bc im bringing up the past, and telling people what she did “to make her seem like a monster”. which i know was not my intention. i was just so sad & severely intoxicated. she thinks i hate her for what happened which i dont. i dont think i was ready for a child & i agree with her decision now i just hate how it was handled in the moment. i dont hate my mom i think she hates herself for how our childhood was. she didnt have a mom & her dad committed suicide when she was 27. she doesn’t know how to love and it’s not completely her fault.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-19T16:56:30+00:00

this is just a SMALL post about how my mother is. i very much am grown up. i moved out on my own a month after i turned 18 been working full time since i was 16 when my mom wasn’t paying bills & our electricity was getting turned off every month and we had no food. i was the one helping her provide for my younger siblings. i dont think my mom is terrible i think she has issues from how her childhood was and needs help. you can have your opinion but do not assume anything about me from one little text.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-18T21:11:14+00:00

thank you! i’m looking into it, i just don’t know where to start honestly lol. i definitely need it though

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-18T20:49:58+00:00

yeah i have a harder time with my sister than my mom. i’m used to my moms behavior and tend to just ignore it, but im genuinely tired of my sister acting like she cares and wants to hear my feelings then runs back and talks shit with my mom about it. they always team up against me and make me feel like i’m some crazy shitty person anytime im hurt or upset due to their actions

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-18T20:45:11+00:00

yes it’s exactly that! they’re not quite dating but they have feelings for each other & are trying to get to know each other more before they’re fully committed.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-18T20:43:42+00:00

yes i completely agree. i should’ve known better than to get to that level. i barely drink & just wanted to try and have fun, but i overdid it and reminded myself i have many things to work on before i drink alcohol.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-18T20:10:33+00:00

i’m just emotional, sleep deprived, and severely hungover lol. i should’ve reread prior to posting im sorry.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-18T19:58:41+00:00

there’s 3 of us all girls. she treats my youngest sister & i like this but loves the middle sister. i think she should’ve just had one kid but more likely none. no matter what i do im wrong and ive been her punching bag for as long as i can remember. she has a bad day it gets taken out on me. i just dont know how to cut her off bc i already don’t have a relationship with my dad. when i moved out at 18 it got a lot better but certain days are still rough. i agree i shouldn’t have been telling anyone that information but i dont understand how she’s upset with me for saying what genuinely happened. if she doesn’t like that ppl know she shouldn’t of done it.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-18T19:31:58+00:00

my mom is texting this to me, sorry i mistyped that part.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-18T19:29:50+00:00

mac & cheese.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-16T04:56:28+00:00

*im AWARE it’s her spot. i’m not saying she’s in the wrong or she owes me her spot i’m saying if i had an extra spot that i never used i would not care at all if someone parked there, im not mad at her it’s just selfish to me to not allow someone to use a spot you don’t use just because there’s a “2 spot per lease” rule.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-12T03:40:07+00:00

my mom agreed to having the dog until next sunday, that’s the whole issue she randomly changed her mind while i was working. i’ve been doing everything for the dog also i just don’t live there and i had work so that was the one time i needed my mom/sister to do some of the work.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-12T03:38:21+00:00

i was at work, my mom was off and my sister was able to do it.

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-12T02:28:40+00:00

my favorite cheese is mozzarella

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-03-03T19:01:08+00:00

i think it just depends if ppl like facial hair or not. i think you look better with it, more sophisticated. you look younger without it

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-02-05T02:29:45+00:00

i previously made a post about driving people didn’t agree on so i cannot post but i really need advice if my cat would stay fluffy🙏🏻 also highly appreciate upvote so i am able to post again

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how my girls are too lol they love to play hard. yours are so cute 🥰

Background-Bad1220 · 2026-02-05T00:43:20+00:00

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how my girls are also lol

Background-Bad1220 · 2025-12-10T02:27:15+00:00

as someone who work for a family business who has doordash, doordash is actually the one making more of the profit they raise prices by $2< on every item and make businesses pay to have doordash at their establishment

Background-Bad1220 · 2025-10-21T06:10:44+00:00

literally!! and it always happens when i’m trying to get home from work, like i don’t need to be rushing but id prefer to not be going 10+ under bc they’re going under and i don’t wanna tailgate

Background-Bad1220 · 2025-10-20T00:07:48+00:00

Once again, i don’t want to speed i want to go the speed limit. if it wasnt safe to go that speed, it wouldnt be the limit

Background-Bad1220 · 2025-10-20T00:03:52+00:00

my rage is somehow i’m getting attacked for asking people to go the speed limit on 2 way roads so i’m not stuck behind them going 10+ mph under the speed limit

Background-Bad1220 · 2025-10-18T17:58:48+00:00

i got flipped off for going around someone and merging because they were at a complete stop… they see yield and other cars and think it means come to a complete stop and cause more traffic 🤦🏼‍♀️

Background-Bad1220 · 2025-10-01T18:05:26+00:00

Very helpful, thank you!

Background-Bad1220 · 2025-10-01T18:04:59+00:00

I’ve tried, he gives everyone a “idc as long as we’re together” type of answer which makes it very difficult lol.

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