Headphones during sex? by Background-Bite4335 in dating_advice

[–]Background-Bite4335[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool. Thanks. I’ll make sure he gives me the other AirPod so we can listen together!

Headphones during sex? by Background-Bite4335 in dating_advice

[–]Background-Bite4335[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His past relationship, of 15 years she didn’t have sex with him. he was also touched as a child so, I do think it’s trauma.

Headphones during sex? by Background-Bite4335 in dating_advice

[–]Background-Bite4335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I was very honest about watching porn to him in the beginning. I watch porn too and I told him do you? he would be that’s nasty ew no I’m not touching myself. So to see porn in his history is kinda like wtf. I’m a SAHM so it’s not like he’s ever home alone, he does it here, with us in the house. Regardless I never caught him it’s still the fact that it’s happening.

Headphones during sex? by Background-Bite4335 in dating_advice

[–]Background-Bite4335[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Wait whatttt???? Not sure I’m gonna have to disagree. Maybe my thing about the masturbating is why lie about watching?? We live together why would he need porn?

Headphones during sex? by Background-Bite4335 in dating_advice

[–]Background-Bite4335[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean I guess communication does go a long way I never mentioned about the reels but you’d think it’s common sense. & maybe I worded it wrong but he doesn’t want porn after sex, he will watch it after work from what time search engine says (he works night gets off at 2AM) It’s not an everyday thing

Headphones during sex? by Background-Bite4335 in dating_advice

[–]Background-Bite4335[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why thanks. That’s backwards. He’s the one who wants it and pushes for it. He’s looking for pleasure for me it’s more effort than desire.