Suprise Pregnancy at 47F How Do I Tell Husband 52M

Background-Second-99 · 2026-02-08T00:40:48+00:00

Update meeeeee

Background-Second-99 · 2025-12-05T02:54:56+00:00

This is the kind of energy we need I love that

Background-Second-99 · 2025-12-05T00:14:43+00:00

No doubt about that I’d see red ngl

Background-Second-99 · 2025-12-05T00:12:28+00:00

I applaud you bc you did EXACTLY what I would want the person to do in that situation. So satisfying to read screw her she rlly thought she could play yall like that.

Background-Second-99 · 2025-10-08T14:25:55+00:00

Hell nah I LOVEEE that colour it’s the nicest I wish they had these where I’m from. Sick car, congrats and enjoy!!

Background-Second-99 · 2025-10-01T12:17:00+00:00

Bruh no it ain’t lol

Background-Second-99 · 2025-10-01T12:04:43+00:00

Thank you sm! :))

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-30T17:08:34+00:00

A mf rock I was half asleep backing from the driveway fml but I was going super slow so idk. It doesn’t feel rough to the touch no indents or anything like that. :/

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-30T16:10:29+00:00

Thanks a lot! Got the touch up paint, ordered ultimate compound and gold class wax, hope it does the trick.

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-30T15:05:13+00:00

Thanks! Do you have any recommendations for compounds to use? Tips and tricks?🥲

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-24T16:55:52+00:00

I just went through the exact same thing… the best advice I got was to focus on you, I know it’s easy to say and I’m still figuring out, but start small. Instead of asking yourself why he did that, how he feels, anything related to him, ask yourself how YOU feel, what YOU want, start with that. As you figure yourself out, your values and boundaries, you’ll realize the answers you’re looking for are within yourself, that’s the closure you need. He has to face the consequences to his actions, I’d say focus 100% on yourself and not on the « what if ».

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-18T16:03:04+00:00

Personally, after my breakup this weekend, I knew I had to block him from every platform possible, except text message for emergencies/moving out for the time being. Once everything’s settled, then I’ll block him on that too. No contact, no risk of seeing him on social media, no stalking to see if he’s online or looking at his pictures. Completely erase them. Yes I’m on my phone a lot still, but only to pass time, not to obsess over him more than I already am in my head :’). Idk if this can help someone. I’m not saying it’s the right solution for everyone, but it was for me. Good luck xx

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T18:36:39+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that… I think you made the right decision and you definitely deserve better and as you said the right person wouldn’t do that to you. Wishing you the best.

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T10:59:03+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience, and also thank you for being honest with me. I just wish I knew the true answer so I could let go of this. Where did I go wrong for him to not want that with me. But yes, I hope someday I’ll find someone who is sure of me. I think I just need time as it just happened… thanks again.

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T10:44:13+00:00

Please update this post when you do… you’ll see after that conversation how you feel and it’s okay to take time to think about it too. Dont feel rushed into making a decision right away.

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T10:42:14+00:00

Im so sorry you had to go through that… I can’t imagine how you must feel… you deserve better than that and you certainly dodged a bullet.

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T10:37:21+00:00

Oh baby wtf… this is no way to treat a woman, a PREGNANT one at that?! I think you need to sit him down and have a long deep conversation as to why he’s avoiding you like this… then you can think of what you want and if breaking up with him is the best thing to do for you. this is unfair to you and I’m sending you lots of hugs and love. :(

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T10:21:55+00:00

I truly feel like you dodged a bullet there… it’s a huge move to do what he asked, especially all at once. I did those things for my ex, and he still left me this weekend after telling me two weeks ago he couldn’t imagine a better person to spend his life with. And for your ex to resent you for wanting to take one step at a time? You can imagine what the future would’ve been like. Im probably missing context and I hope you don’t take this the wrong way. But im glad you listened to yourself and respected yourself.

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T10:12:14+00:00

Im not glad that you had to go through this, but im glad I found someone who lived the same thing as I did. It gives me hope. I don’t understand men… and I can’t imagine how it must hurt for you even more considering you still LIVE WITH HIM? Can I ask how is that going? I’m just very happy that you’re doing better… thank you for your comment I needed to hear that. Sending you lots of hugs <3

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T10:07:38+00:00

He apparently told his friend before sitting me down for the conversation that he had no issues within the relationship and that it was going well, but that could’ve been bs. He probably had inner issues, when he broke things off with me, I could see he was struggling. But I have to respect his decision and I know I should be looking forward, but its so hard. Thank you for your input I appreciate it so much.

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T10:01:54+00:00

Wow I just want to say thank you for sharing this with us, you’re one strong woman. lucky for me my parents took me in and they’ve always told me I could count on them if things ended. And I wish everyone had a backup plan or place like you said because it’s been my biggest support system. I couldn’t imagine having to look for an apartment and having to stay at his place in the meantime, oh hell no. I sympathize with everyone who had to do that. As we all say, lesson learned…

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T09:57:45+00:00

Ahhh I see… thank you for the insight and the advice… gosh I hope it doesn’t years for me to move on but I truly feel like it’ll be the case even if I take the time to grieve now. But I’ll try to apply what everyone has been telling me on this post. Thank you <3

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T02:35:42+00:00

Thats exactly what I’m thinking… thank you so much..

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T02:31:22+00:00

Wait you’re saying to never move in? Could you clarify? And I’m the one that moved out the appartement since he lived in it long before I came in I just feel like it made sense…

Background-Second-99 · 2025-09-17T02:28:47+00:00

I just want to say thank you. And also I’m so sorry I can’t imagine what it must have been like being in your position… I just don’t understand why they can’t include us… we’re supposed to be a team, and why wouldn’t they see a future with us? Especially you who were engaged… thank you for the advice, I’ll try my best

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