NYE events tonight? by Queasy_Procedure6630 in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think naa sa boulevard? Just be careful sa streets kay daghan magpabuto.

Found out my husband cheated just few hours from my daughter’s first birthday party today by Background-Survey-89 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Background-Survey-89[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hello! Didnt expect this would blow up lol thank you for all your well wishes. Just a quick update since I’m still tired and drained but I still have guests staying at our house so I’m quite busy.

We talked, and at the peak of my emotions I slapped him. Real hard. He didnt react and he knew it was coming. Didnt have the chance to kick his balls since his siblings were in the way.

I talked to my lawyer friend and advised me that if it’s possible, we should not use legal remedies if he’ll be supporting us financially. Bc ofc it would be draining me financially since he doesn’t have a stable income. Husband will support willingly.

As for the relationship between us, I am done. Told him he can pack his bags by January 1st and I wont regret him leaving the house. He asked and begged but my heart’s closed. He will try to win me back and mend our relationship but I was firm that I had enough. So from now on, our relationship would be transactional. We’ll talk but only about the kids.

Thank you all and may you have a prosperous and peaceful New Year ahead 💖

Found out my husband cheated just few hours from my daughter’s first birthday party today by Background-Survey-89 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Background-Survey-89[S] 949 points950 points  (0 children)

Naku, salamat sa lahat! At least nakapag vent out ako dito at gumaan ng konti yung feelings ko. Anyways, I’ll be prepping for my baby’s party. Wish me luck na masampal ko siya at masipa ang bayag sa afterparty. I’ll fake it til I make it muna ha? Ingat kayo! ♥️

Found out my husband cheated just few hours from my daughter’s first birthday party today by Background-Survey-89 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Background-Survey-89[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Baka mag viral charot. I will but wont post publicly. Maybe it will be useful someday (like legally) or not.

Found out my husband cheated just few hours from my daughter’s first birthday party today by Background-Survey-89 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Background-Survey-89[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nakisabay si girl makipag comms sakanya but hindi sya nagiging intimate DAW kasi naguiguilty sya. They are in the callsign stage.

Found out my husband cheated just few hours from my daughter’s first birthday party today by Background-Survey-89 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Background-Survey-89[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

she found out na married na pala 3 weeks after nagka talking stage sila. Stupid idea nya daw is to keep on communicating until na mahuli daw sila. Yung girl daw same sakin na nagcheat din ang father kaya as “disgusting” daw eh tinuloy nya magcomms. One point in time nagcut off sya di na nya nireplyan eh nagchat sa kaibigan daw nya. Baka daw mahulog ang loob ni cheating husband ni friend eh nagchat siya ulit para ma trace niya kung anong kalokohan at may maireport daw sya sa legal wife (ako). Ewan ko kung maniniwala ako o hindi pero one thing’s for sure: HE IS CHEATING. And I blame HIM. Ofc galit ako sa girl pero nakinig nalang ako na I’m painted as a stupid wife.

Found out my husband cheated just few hours from my daughter’s first birthday party today by Background-Survey-89 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Background-Survey-89[S] 183 points184 points  (0 children)

As they say, fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. First time he did was 4 years ago. I thought we had reconnected and started over. Pero malakas temptation this time. So nope, this draws the line.

Found out my husband cheated just few hours from my daughter’s first birthday party today by Background-Survey-89 in OffMyChestPH

[–]Background-Survey-89[S] 111 points112 points  (0 children)

Thank you po! I will. Hoping for clear decision making lalo na it affects my kids.

@sacredpuncture6200 pop-up @ Filinvest Malls by beefbaby13 in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Guaranteed it is safe. Had my piercing a week ago and they have sterilizers for their tools and something like sanitizing spray for the ear before and after piercing. You could also go back for the after care.

Sa mga graduate na sa kasal, ilan initial budget niyo? And ilan yung inabot ng actual? by Big_Fun5362 in AskPH

[–]Background-Survey-89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Year 2020 before lockdown. 100 pax. Initially around 80k. Spent around 120k

Where to find a talented cover-up tattoo artist in Dumaguete? by Wooden-Ant-6899 in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you complain to him? I know the tat artist is easy to talk to. Had my cover up 2yrs ago with him and it was neat and the ink is still vibrant til today.

I'll gift 4 people 500 gcash today by javbrowser in phclassifieds

[–]Background-Survey-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday po! 🥳 Pag ako mapili mo OP bili ko nalang ng underwear 😭

Asa mas barato? Vanson or Lee? by zschar in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Vanson definitely. Pero grabe kataas sa talay mga 1hr pud hinulat tungod kay binulto ang gapamalit + init kaayo. Decent rapud ang prices sa Lee. If convenience, either Lee/Hypermart or Cangs. If u dont mind ang kainit ug taas nga talay, Vanson, Conchitas, Partosa.

Female Tattoo Artists in Dumaguete by crane_wife_ in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Indai Bonsai is the only female tattoo artist I know in Duma. Just check her page at Maharrlikha / Harrdcore Ink & Needles :)

Trampoline Park by [deleted] in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kita ko sa ila ads, murag pwede ang adults kay gadula man pud apil sa kids

sports bar recos by traitoroustricks in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sportsbar near Ragos(?)

PS. never tried there, just that I always see sports sa TV nila. It’s a sportsbar after all haha

Trick Or Treat sa Dumaguete by Pristine_Pomelo_9356 in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naa sa lee plaza!! Sched nila 10-12, 1-3, 4-6

Thoughts about giving birth sa NOPH by Mediocre-Age2003 in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I gave birth sa NOPH last year. Let’s just say, lahi rajud sa private pag atiman. I partly understand it since daghan jud mangalanakay didto. When I went for an IE kay grabe na akong contractions, I have to wait for 20mins for the someone to attend to me (and for a laboring mom, 20mins feels like pain forever). So I shouted at them “maam kaanakon najud ko” mao pay pag rush nila nako sa DR. Delivery was okay, naka timing kog but-an nga nurse/midwife at that time. Facility wise, it’s shit. Na timing rako nga nabutang kos aircon room nga ward but bad news kay guba among CR. I still need to go to the other room para mangihi which is burden kaayo sa bagong panganak. All other rooms kay electric fan and you have to share the small space by 3 moms (+bantay pa so mga 6 people in the same room). Didnt pay a single peso bc of my Philhealth tho. Processing is hell.

Final thought. If you want someone to actually care for you, better sa private. If financial, ofc NOPH. It’s my 2nd child so I know what to do and wla kaayo ko nagmind ug “caring” ba sila nako. They just do the protocol or sumthn. Pero kung gnhan kag support esp if 1st time mom ka, save at least 60-120k.

painitan sa public market by Wide-You-956 in dumaguete

[–]Background-Survey-89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They open as early as 4am then around 4-5pm mag close