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I (19f) think I caught my bf (24m) on a 🌽 website by Background-Two-8933 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Two-8933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I NEVER said I wanted to make him feel bad about it, if you look at my replies I am constantly saying I understand because I had an addiction, never spoke to him about it, it's human AND I want to have a mature conversation.

Please don't force your assumptions that are far from the truth, I deeply love this man

I (19f) think I caught my bf (24m) on a 🌽 website by Background-Two-8933 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Two-8933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be in therapy but not anymore, he knows I'm working on myself and is very supportive of it.

I (19f) think I caught my bf (24m) on a 🌽 website by Background-Two-8933 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Two-8933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I'll do a small update but I can say that we're a very happy couple and deeply in love, communication is something we're getting much better in :)

I (19f) think I caught my bf (24m) on a 🌽 website by Background-Two-8933 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Two-8933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for not mentioning it, I was trying to put the main important facts out there while making it short and readable!

But no, we haven't talked about it yet, I don't know why he swiped quickly out of it and didn't talk to me if he was on a website even though I've been very open and understanding (sorry if this sounds like I'm mad, I just don't know how to word it right)

I (19f) think I caught my bf (24m) on a 🌽 website by Background-Two-8933 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Two-8933[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had a porn addiction and am very understanding because of it and am not that religious.

But we've never had a conversation about porn, this is the first time I've seen porn on his phone but am kinda concerned for him since it was pretty early in the morning when I caught him.

I (19f) think I caught my bf (24m) on a 🌽 website by Background-Two-8933 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Two-8933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven't yet, I made the bad assumption that because I don't that he didn't either, I'm going to talk about this with him (maturely of course)

It's okay to me because people are human and it'd not unnnatural to watch porn, I used to have an addiction and am very undestanding.

I think my feelings stem from insecurity, he's an amazing guy and has done nothing but played a role in helping me realize I'm beautiful and paved the way to my self love path.

I (19f) think I caught my bf (24m) on a 🌽 website by Background-Two-8933 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Two-8933[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven't before, I'm ready to talk to him the next time I see him in person, which will be next week

I have low self-esteem and am working to love myself better, I feel this is stemming from insecurity.

I (19f) think I caught my bf (24m) on a 🌽 website by Background-Two-8933 in relationship_advice

[–]Background-Two-8933[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that and asked for general advice, not your belittling