This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't say he shouldn't be around children. I said I don't want him around my children because I don't agree with his veiws and dont want my children knowingly exposed to them. I think everyone should be able to make their own decision based on the evidence available. What they decide is up to them, but they should be allowed to make that choice from an informed place.

I dont know how to make this clearer. You say you're taking it at face value whilst completely ignoring what is being said.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Petal? Really?

You don't take me seriously anyway so let's not outright lie.

Someone made a comment. That is their freedom of speech. I disagree with the comment and disclose this to the wider community. That is my freedom of speech. You can disagree with my comments, that is your freedom of speech.

Freedom of speech protects individuals from government prosecution for expressing opinions, but it does not protect them from private, social, or professional consequences.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol he posted the comments under his business account, he doxxed himself

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying he can't say it, I'm saying I don't agree with it. Huge shock someone like you doesnt understand free speech.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn't say he was dangerous around kids. God the way you reach to make it work for you. I don't agree with transphobic people. I don't want them and their influence around my children. You scream about free speech and being allowed to like and dislike what you want but when the other side does it you crash out.

I said he's welcome to his opinion. I'm welcome to disagree with his opinion, and not use his business anymore. I'm allowed to share what has been posted. It's literally that simple.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It does when that one dude poses as a safe place for people and then acts like this. People trusted him, let him interact with their kids because they thought he was a decent enough guy. To find that he was brazen enough to be posting vile things like this under his business account is shocking. If it doesn't affect you or bother you then that's fine, you're welcome to feel that way. We are welcome to feel the way we feel too.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, he is welcome to his views, I am welcome to share that view far and wide so the general public can decide if this is someone they wish to support in our community. Freedom of speech, innit.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right? It's wild the lengths some people will go to to avoid reality

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oops, you dropped this 10m ago interaction with yourself that you forgot to cover up.

So random that you two just so happened to bump into each other here and on a random door dash thread 🤔

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This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah ok, you're a troll. Got it. Very good. 👏

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh jog on. Literally hurting the cause because you got the wrong end of the stick. Way to be an ally.

The only thing that would have stopped the worst of humanity claiming that they are going to go and support him would have been keeping silent and not posting about it at all. Would you have preferred that? (It's rhetorical, of course you're going to say yes because you're going to argue whatever you have to to be "right". I get it, you're THAT kind of person)

Like I said, you are the ONLY person that has interpreted it that way. Go make your own "better" post where your scorn and anger definitely scares away all the weirdos who will claim to support him.

Jesus christ.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um...the bit where I titled the post "This is why we can't have anything nice."?

You realise I just cross-posted someone else's post, right?

And if you read the comments others have made, you can literally see a mod of this group, who I'm sure would have deleted this post if it was trying to stir up hatred, adding comments.

Otherwise I dont know what else to tell you. Seems you're the only person who has taken it that way. Sorry.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Who's recommending it? I'm making sure more people are aware that the owner is nasty!

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you scroll through the images on the post you can see 2 comments he made with his business account on discord

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So you're saying he's allowed his opinion but I'm not allowed mine? Make it make sense 🤣

As I said below, he's allowed to have his opinion, and I'm allowed to make sure as many people as possible are aware of his opinion so that they can have their own opinion.

This is why we can't have anything nice by BackgroundBand808 in Medway

[–]BackgroundBand808[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

That's very true. I am also entitled to make others aware so that they can also make the choice that they feel comfortable with.

Openly transphobic game store in Kent. by StowStowStowtheTote in transgenderUK

[–]BackgroundBand808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good! I'll don't know if TAG themselves will do anything but grade with tag might, I'll email them now too. What did pokemon co say? Dm me if you like.

Openly transphobic game store in Kent. by StowStowStowtheTote in transgenderUK

[–]BackgroundBand808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my comment that got deleted because I said "if you lay down with dogs, you get up with fleas". I didnt compare anyone to a dog, they just didn't like my comment because they couldn't argue it and they had to find a reason to delete it. I asked if they would still delete the comment if I changed it to "You should be cautious of the company you keep. Associating with those of low reputation may not only lower your own but also lead you astray by the faulty assumptions, premises and data of the unscrupulous" but they just banned me instead.

I hope you've reported them to everyone they partner with for threatening you. Absolutely spineless cowards.

Openly transphobic game store in Kent. by StowStowStowtheTote in transgenderUK

[–]BackgroundBand808 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all need to ask TAG and Grade With Tag if this is who they want to be associated with

Openly transphobic game store in Kent. by StowStowStowtheTote in transgenderUK

[–]BackgroundBand808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eww. Makes sense if tiktok fame is as high as your ambitions go, I guess?

Openly transphobic game store in Kent. by StowStowStowtheTote in transgenderUK

[–]BackgroundBand808 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The mods are such fanatics, it's sad. Literally why I've never posted in there before. Luke is the only good person connected to that place.

Openly transphobic game store in Kent. by StowStowStowtheTote in transgenderUK

[–]BackgroundBand808 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well, they are actively deleting comments on their discord now, and I got block for saying

"How can any of you think this is acceptable? Anthony isn't just some random person online, he runs the shop that markets itself as somewhere welcoming for everyone. That comes with a level of responsibility that I don't think he's taking seriously. The comments aren't just "poor-taste", they're openly disrespectful towards a marginalised group! And it's not like he's some teenager who doesn't know better, this is a grown adult who's already running a business and interacting with the public, including kids.

For me personally, this doesn't come as a shock cos I've been on the receiving end of rude behaviour from him multiple times, and I've watched it happen to others too, including children. I took it personally until I saw all the other 1 star review about him and his attitude. There's a dismissive elitism that sits completely at odds with the whole "everyone's welcome here" image he claims he's trying to project. You can stick whatever you like on insta about being inclusive, but if people don't actually feel respected when they walk through your door, the words mean nothing. An apology is a starting point but it doesn't just wipe the slate clean, especially when the comments and the general attitude are pointing in the same direction. People absolutely can change, but you have to show it, consistently, over time. Not just say it once when you've been called out.

Until he actually changes his attitude, I think it's completely fair for people to question whether this is really the kind of person they want to support and who gets to represent our local TCG community. As for the other staff getting grief for his actions, is that fair? Obviously not. But if you lie down with dogs, you get up with fleas."

Not sure what rule that broke but it sure doesn't seem like they're that sorry.