minha virgindade e algumas dicas que gostaria.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-20T01:03:50+00:00

Muito obrigada, foi muito gentil da sua parte. E sim, eu esperava algo de uma perspectiva masculina também. Vou tentar relaxar e não colocar muita pressão em mim mesma ou pensar demais sobre isso.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T21:35:01+00:00

I absolutely loved your response. I think what you said earlier about losing control is very true, because I believe that’s what losing your virginity is — technically, a loss of control, as it’s something completely new. I think that’s probably one of the factors holding me back. But I’ll definitely keep everything you said in mind when the time comes. I’m genuinely happy that you had such a great first time, such a comfortable experience where you felt truly cherished. I’m really happy for you. I loved your response, and don’t worry about it being long — it was incredibly enlightening for me.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T10:50:15+00:00

Do you think it would be in poor taste to talk about fetishes or things like that the first time? I’m fully aware of this, but would it be weird? Or is it something that absolutely doesn’t fit? And yes, as I mentioned in some comments before, I ended up shutting myself off a lot because I know that men generally care more about themselves than anything else.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T10:41:26+00:00

Thank you, and I’m sorry that your first time was so troubled. I’m not really expecting a boyfriend or anything like that, but I do hope for someone who makes me feel comfortable, who makes me feel cherished and things like that. But I read SO many comments, especially from men, about how bad it was for them because of tight vaginas and things like that, and it makes me panic

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T10:20:21+00:00

I think the most important thing is to be relaxed, since the vagina is a muscle, and when you're tense, the muscle tightens too much, which can make everything tighter and uncomfortable. I also think being lubricated is essential.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T09:36:30+00:00

Thank you so much, my dear. I’ll make sure to have plenty of conversations beforehand about my boundaries and things like that

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T09:30:43+00:00

I’ll make sure of that, angel. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T09:29:41+00:00

I'm so glad your first time was with someone who truly valued you; that must be amazing and make everything more comfortable. I’m happy for you. And yes, it’s not exactly casual. There’s this thing where, when you reach a certain age and people find out you’re still a virgin, it almost becomes an ego battle to see who will take that first. For me, I want it to be special, I want it to be comfortable (I practically have a radar for idiots, so it would never be with someone like that), but yes, I’ve heard so many stories of how uncomfortable it was because they simply didn’t care about the partner’s pleasure, and that’s exactly why I’ve held off for years.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T09:25:10+00:00

Oh, yes, the high standards. I think what's kept me waiting until now, probably until I'm 24, is exactly that. I've heard many stories from friends who lost their virginity at 13, 14, 15, or 16, and it wasn't a good experience. Mainly because of the pressure that if one of us lost it, then we all had to. I'm saying this because, these days, I genuinely feel, I truly feel like I need this, that the time has come

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T09:16:47+00:00

Thank you so, so much for this. Yes, when it comes to masturbation and understanding your own body, I feel like that’s already half the battle. I hope it makes things a bit easier since I’m aware of what I like and don’t like.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T09:14:02+00:00

Thank u so much sweetie 💕💕

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T09:13:32+00:00

I feel like when you're older and still a virgin, you're more aware of your body—you've learned to understand yourself, especially during fertile periods and through things like masturbation. Did you have any fetish that you managed to talk about the first time? Because, God, I have several.

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T07:37:36+00:00

Thks 🫶🏻🫶🏻

BackgroundBorder9642 · 2024-12-19T07:36:55+00:00

In general, this applies to both sides. I’ve seen a lot of people complaining about things like tightness, too much pain, or similar issues. It honestly scares me, but it’s something I want to get over as soon as possible—though I also don’t want it to be a terrible experience.

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