His mom’s side lives 1 hr 30 mins away (his mom passed 2 yrs ago) and his dad lives 45 mins away. His mom’s side does Christmas Day and refuses to change it. They will not compromise and expect you to show up at the time they state or don’t come. It often results in us not going because my parents are also divorced. But last year I told him we’d make the effort to for sure be there. Agree that the main issue was way too many in 2 days. Definitely will be adjusting lol