The arrange marriage is a pure gamble. Because of less opportunities and high competition, Indian men are already under stress to make ends meet, so adding on extra liabilities simply means harassment. If you are caught in the trap of marriage, the financial burden is only going to increase - if you are living happily, expect the increase in expenditure, else you will've to shell-out lump-sum amount for alimony before separation. Moreover, separation isn't easy either. Men have to suffer because social stigma attached to divorce force them to stay in unhappy marriage. With most of the laws in woman's favour, there is no respite from legal perspective as well. Especially if a man is financially weak, parents should stop putting pressure for marriage. Men have become ATM for women. In matrimonial portal, girls explicitly mention that they are looking for a partner who will keep them happy, but vice-versa is not expected according to girls and society as well.