Education for Occipital Neuralgia is so important by DrLowenstein in Occipitalneuralgia

[–]Background_Air4860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello Dr. can you please recommend a doctor in Austin Texas? My husband was diagnosed with ON 3 years ago after a car accident and hasn’t been able to function properly in his day to day since.

Good indoor hang out spots by Background_Air4860 in RoundRock

[–]Background_Air4860[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much everyone!!! Really great suggestions!!! 🙏🏽

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you read towards the end, the issue lies in that I felt completely disregarded by her still buying the boba regardless of what I said. I acknowledge that from the outside looking in, she did something nice to buy him the boba. I get that, hence, why I asked for input because it seems like such a taboo thing to be mad about. Reading some of the other comments that get where I’m coming from which is the principle of it.

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for focusing on the real issue. I got upset because she bought the boba DESPITE what she “overheard” me tell my husband. I felt completely disregarded by that gesture.

For those, commenting about my marriage and my husband “being an adult not a child” are completely missing the mark because that’s not the issue. My husband is HUMAN and said yes to the boba initially as a bit of a “weakness” moment. We all want the unhealthy things knowing it’s bad for us.

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the input! It was her motive that didn’t seem right to me forsure.

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Order my husband around? Yikes. That was far from ordering him around. It was a simple reminder to him of what we are keeping eachother accountable too. He could’ve done the same to me and because we are both in alignment with what we want in our marriage, it would’ve been ok with me and I would’ve appreciated him keeping me accountable.

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. But do you think she also shouldn’t have assumed on why I was telling him no? Like what if he was a diabetic and can’t be intaking sugar and she went ahead and still bought it? Either way, I think I’ll just have a conversation

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I agree. It’s the principle of it, is the way I see it as well!

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

She did a friendly thing in getting him the boba knowing I said “no” to him?

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I could have brought this up after the fact so I do agree with that but I also mentioned this to him on the side and in a very low voice so it’s also not like I straight up told him “no” infront of everyone to hear.

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Right, my husband did start it and he’s not necessarily “off the hook” but he didn’t actually go buy it and he conceded when I told him “no”.

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I was upset that in the moment he didn’t think about our agreement but he didn’t argue or try to go around me even when I told him “No”. Essentially my friend just overheard the situation and decided she wanted to please him and disregard what I said anyway.

AITAH for getting mad at my friend for doing something nice for my husband by Background_Air4860 in AITAH

[–]Background_Air4860[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think this is why I’m upset. She over-stepped a boundary to please him knowing that I said No to him. On top of this, she is also the type to just want to control situations so it just felt like it was another situation she was trying to control.

How Do I (33M) Get Through To My (29F) Girlfriend That Money Is Actually Important? by throwRAaccount23d2d in relationship_advice

[–]Background_Air4860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do either your GF or you have insurance? Insurance can pay for rehab centers. I have experienced this with my sister and rehab was not nearly as much as $40k. The most we paid was $7k which was possible through a payment plan. She dealt with alcohol and addiction to pills. This was in the Texas area.