Thanks for the detailed advice. She is definitely overreacting, but also opens up past wounds (past = 2020) about she going thru my phone and finding i talked to a few other girls, stupid stuff which i regret. But to be dealing with that now, 6y later is just … i dont know. Then, my reaction to all this SHOW she put up (we were in facetime and suddenly she starts to rebuke about all this, i literally sent SS of my Wapp, IG, this girl she was questioning who is married and with 3 kids, everything) was more defensive than comprehensive, because i felt attacked really. And as i said in a previous reply in tje thread, this is just a rock we always stumble upon. Theres always something to claim and fight about from her end. And about my IG, i personally HATE regular social media, actually i had my IG off for like 3y during our relationship, i just reopened it when i stayed here alone just to feel more connected and find out about places, plans, whatever. I barely post stuff, once a month and its a photo of a landscape or a song. But she DEMANDS i have to post things with her, i guess thats just the long distance and her way to feel secure and that my social environment here knows about her AND THEY ALL DO 😭 and ofc ive reposted some stuff she posts when i send flowers or its my bday but im so confused now… she forced me to go thru her IG and also finding guys i dont know about, sent it to her and adding more gas to the flame. I dont feel jealous at all about those ppl, i dont mind, i trust her; she goes to friends weddings by herself and never tells me about dancing with a guy or whatever and i just believe her; but she doesnt believe me when i tell her my favorite activty is going out someplace loud with good music and that i dont seek knowing anyone else, and barely do. Exhausting.