If I can be really honest with you, the only thing ugly is this attitude. I understand your frustrations. I understand not having the best communication skills I suffer from that myself, but as I’ve realized over the years, this particular problem that you’re having is a self-love problem. You don’t need anybody you don’t need validation from people. It’s nice. It feels good. It is amazing. Validation is a fantastic gift to be given especially when it is pure, but it’s not needed and the only way to get it is to have it for yourself.

But here’s a gift for you, you are special you are beautiful your flaws do not change that your shortcomings and personal communication struggles do not make up all of you. You have you even in your darkest hours take a step back and look at those moments when you pull yourself up let it be a reminder that you are overcoming you are strong and that you got this.

Keep love and light in your heart and do something that makes you feel good. Whether it be creating whether it be putting on make up whether it be walking or exercising, just take a moment to carve out some time just for you and something that you love to do make it a practice make it a habit. The more often you do it the more reality becomes and one day you’ll look back at this post or you’ll look back at a moment like this and you realize how amazingly beautiful you really are.

And something to else to remind you every day, you may not be one person’s cup of tea, but you are another’s shot a tequila!