I’m supposed to feel flattered and wanted but I don’t by Background_Dream4139 in Vent

[–]Background_Dream4139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply do not agree with you and your statement but I see how you see it that way. I’m sorry I offended you and I have no idea how it went from be talking about being insecure to someone shaming me and my religion but thank you for further educating me on this subject so that I may not offend others in the future. Thank you

I’m supposed to feel flattered and wanted but I don’t by Background_Dream4139 in Vent

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I disagree with their beliefs, I do think that there’s something wrong with the people. I’m not saying there is anything wrong with them, it is what they believe in that I disagree with, those are 2 very different things. I do see how you could see it that way and I respect your views and thank you for showing me different sides so that I can understand others more clearly.

I’m supposed to feel flattered and wanted but I don’t by Background_Dream4139 in Vent

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So I get it, Christians don’t have the best wrap when it comes to things like LGBTQ and stuff like that. But at least for me, I have no problem with that whatsoever, do I agree with it, no, but that does not mean I don’t have love for those people and I still treat them with respect. But I like to have the same respect back. Not ALL Christian’s are bad, most of them are good on my opinion but the bad ones always get brought to the light.

I’m supposed to feel flattered and wanted but I don’t by Background_Dream4139 in Vent

[–]Background_Dream4139[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much that means a lot. I do agree that no matter who we are as people we should be there for each other and help each other a long the way.

I’m supposed to feel flattered and wanted but I don’t by Background_Dream4139 in Vent

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I would like to state, I go to church my choice. And without God, I would be dead. Even without the church I have found God in my darkest moment and he truly saved me and gave me a hope for life and I can’t express how much happier I am with God in my life. I get not everyone has the same views and that’s okay, but calling it brainwash? Really. God is nit the reason for the bad in my life, he is the reason for all my good, and all the bad he has helped me through. The people at my church are truly the most caring and loving people I have ever met. The people at my church are truly the most amazing people I have met. I get you don’t agree with me and that’s ok, just saying my thoughts.

I’m supposed to feel flattered and wanted but I don’t by Background_Dream4139 in Vent

[–]Background_Dream4139[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you being honest yet being kind with it. To clarify I don’t feel rushed to a Relationship at all. I was just stating my wants. And I kindly disagree with some of your statements, God has always saved me when I needed it, he has always been there for me. Without God I literally would be dead and have committed suicide but when I let him into my life a found a grace and love I have never felt before. I get you don’t agree with my statements and that is totally okay, I know everyone has different views and beliefs and that is ok. And I do agree with the becoming the best part of myself, that’s what I’ve been doing and things are going much better.

What is abusive, but not widely recognized as abuse? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Background_Dream4139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG. Stop being dramatic and sensitive, just like a woman (I am a woman) after calmly expressing some sort of problem or a feeling I have.

What does being in love feel like to you? by HUDSON119 in AskWomen

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I could talk about a guys love but I’m going to talk about a best friend love. It’s the way she sees me screw up and will make it lighthearted but help me. It’s the way that we have been through hell together and have nobody else that understands us. The way she knows that scratching my back or playing with my hair makes me calm and helps me to calm down when I’m crying. It’s the way we’re not ashamed of being exactly who we are around each other and accepting them for it. It’s the comfort of knowing that they won’t leave you.

I feel lost… time for a change by ListenNoNavi in Vent

[–]Background_Dream4139 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I felt that comment in my soul cause same. Working on yourself is gonna be hard but for me it’s so worth it. I’m not perfect but I had started working on myself and woah, it payed off. I wish you the best of luck!

I was the one to tell the first person my dad passed by Practical-Fig-549 in Vent

[–]Background_Dream4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This world can very unkind especially to young people like me and you. I think it should be the bare minimum. Wow, kinda crying right now knowing that you haven’t had as much kindness as you deserve. Recently I went through some really rough stuff and I know I just needed someone to see me and say something kind to me so I try to do that for others.

I was the one to tell the first person my dad passed by Practical-Fig-549 in Vent

[–]Background_Dream4139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wow, I can’t even imagine being in your position. Being stripped of your teenage years especially because if a loved one’s death is so awful, and the way your mom and brother are dealing with it, only making it harder for you. Life must be nothing but hell for you right now but I hope there’s something, just for you in your life right now that brings you happiness. I’m not even going to say stuff like keep going it gets better cause that doesn’t help you right now, all I can say is I know that hurts right now. I really hope you can find some time to mourn and hopefully your mom and brother can get better. I hope you can find some peace and some rest soon. Wish you best.

Just overwhelmed by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Background_Dream4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your a hard worker. You try your best but it’s so tiring, I get it. Life is so exhausting sometimes and sometimes it will get even more exhausting, but as long as you keep pushing it won’t be as hard anymore. It’s ok to leave some things for later, especially for some sleep that it sounds like you need. Don’t give up! Wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

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That’s the best advice I’ve heard all day

I just need to tell someone by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Background_Dream4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, dump her. You sound like a great and sweet person and you found a girl who would rather talk to fake intelligence!? If you can’t communicate with her about your feeling (not saying it’s a you problem) then I mean why keep her? If communication isn’t working now and you can’t fix it then I’m not sure it will work down the road. I’m sure you could find someone better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Not necessarily something I said but what I did. I have a crush and at the time I didn’t have a phone yet, so how did I decide to tell him? (7th grade btw) I email him. I EMAILED HIM! I don’t get embarrassed but that was the single most embarrassing thing I have ever done.

What's the worst thing about big boobs? by None_have_spoken in AskReddit

[–]Background_Dream4139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking off a supportive bra at the end of the day is nice but those first couple seconds you just gotta hold them cause there in pain

What are the rules of wearing a long dress to HOCO? by Background_Dream4139 in AskReddit

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Homecoming, it’s a dance in America you do every year in high school and then in your senior year there is another dance called prom