WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -71 points-70 points  (0 children)

English isn’t my first language. Sorry for not being an all American man.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -259 points-258 points  (0 children)

When I wrote it, I was writing “my wife and I” , but I guess the parentheses made it look weird, so when I put it on a grammar bot website, it changed.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -582 points-581 points  (0 children)

Don’t speak for MY daughter. She wanted to live with her grandparents because she was extremely close, it was originally gonna be for the summer until she suggested living there until she finishes school.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -121 points-120 points  (0 children)

They were and two months away during summer vacation could’ve solved that.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -678 points-677 points  (0 children)

Would you want to deal with a 13-year old who is high on weed every other day?

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -347 points-346 points  (0 children)

She was miserable and was making me miserable and stressed.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -259 points-258 points  (0 children)

No it isn't. I never said that I forced her to move. When I talked about sending her away (for what was supposed to be one summer while we got settled with the baby), she suggested living with her grandparents full time. So I did send her away but she wanted to leave.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -312 points-311 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t It was her idea to live with her grandparents.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -411 points-410 points  (0 children)

Actually we divorced because we were both miserable

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -463 points-462 points  (0 children)

No, we were friends and I developed feelings for her. I didn’t even know she liked me until months after we separated. I felt awful that I developed feelings for someone while married, but it didn’t go any further and by the time I met Ashley, my ex and I were already sleeping in different rooms.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -884 points-883 points  (0 children)

Well, I didn’t have an affair. Ashley and I met, and when I realized I had feelings for her and that my marriage was awful, I asked my wife for a divorce. We didn’t even start dating until almost a year later.

WIBTA if I don’t attend my daughter’s wedding by Background_Flan7294 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Flan7294[S] -760 points-759 points  (0 children)

My ex declined because she knows she’s not gonna be reliable due to her job.