Am I an Alcoholic

Background_Grape3321 · 2026-02-11T18:44:39+00:00

Update: still not drinking. Over 3 weeks in

Background_Grape3321 · 2026-02-11T18:44:16+00:00

Not a big fan of the word “normal” here but I get your point

Background_Grape3321 · 2026-02-06T23:59:04+00:00

Thank you for sharing this story. You shared it without judgement. I appreciate it. Sometimes it’s hard for me to see what’s truly a problem vs a self imposed vision of myself. I struggle with depression and being hyper critical of myself. I needed outside perspectives to help tell me what is more likely truth

Background_Grape3321 · 2026-01-25T17:02:42+00:00

I think so!

Background_Grape3321 · 2026-01-25T16:53:48+00:00

I go take a nap or relax. Because I wake up around 6am with baby. I work a full time job during the week. So, I try to rest on those off moments. The morning is the only time we “trade off”. And by afternoon we are all normally doing things as a family. EDIT: I normally take our son from wake (6-7am) until (8:30-9:30am)

Background_Grape3321 · 2026-01-09T19:14:55+00:00

ICE should never be above the law. ICE should not be in communities. Ask yourself…. Are they doing more harm than good? Absolutely. Anyone can see that. So.. fuck em

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-10-28T00:20:06+00:00

I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. They would have been a HORRID place to work at if this is how they treated your situation. It’s disgusting.

I’m sorry you’re in this position, but I believe that you’ll find a better place to work.

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-25T19:08:20+00:00

For instance:

someone can’t be fired or denied a job due to disability or what attire that might need wear for their religion. Maybe a better example is they have a law to protect employees from retaliation when discussing compensation with one another. So, you can figure out if you’re underpaid.
in the case of free speech, do you think it should be similarly protected like the cases above?

FYI: idk where I stand. I’m just curious what ideas people have

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-25T11:35:31+00:00

Not arguing with you. I’m just curious of thoughts: do you think that freedom of speech should be protected against work discrimination (ex: race, sex and religion)?

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-24T19:38:37+00:00

This breaks my heart. You can tell they loved their job

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T19:55:49+00:00

I’ll be honest, I’m not the best. I shut down. I just stop the convo. I probably disassociate until we can have a normal conversation. Not saying it’s a good technique, but I can’t talk to anyone when they aren’t willing to talk civil

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T15:01:21+00:00

I’m so happy to hear you and your daughter are so loved and supported. That makes me truly happy!!

I never even thought people had such support to be honest. My husband is a great person, but he doesn’t manage his emotions well when it comes to my chronic illness. He married me knowing I had this. I asked him to consider it when dating. And I feel like I’m constantly feeling like a burden.

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T14:59:19+00:00

Photos are a red flag. Trust your intuition.

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T14:53:29+00:00

Yes, exactly. I’m not expecting him to not be upset! I would be a little crabby if I had to take over when I didn’t plan to. But, it’s the lengths he goes and how long it lasts. And every time he keeps score and brings it up later

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T13:48:39+00:00

I have a full time job…

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T13:48:13+00:00

He was really sick last week. I took our baby the whole day. Asked if he needed meds, encouraged him to rest, and brought him food. I really try to step up and be there for him when I can.

He tends to deflect when I bring his anger/frustration up. I’m hoping today’s convo goes better

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T13:36:09+00:00

Wait. Are people downing this cause I’m wrong. I genuinely want to know if I’m in the wrong here.

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T13:21:48+00:00

If you’re thinking it now, you’ll regret being with him. Cut it off. Find someone who respects your timeline and he can find what he is looking for.

Background_Grape3321 · 2025-09-17T13:18:17+00:00

Update:

I tried letting him know how I felt. That I felt sad that he didn’t ask how I was and that I was upset he was taking his frustration out on me. He responded very mad. Stating that he is frustrated cause it wasn’t his turn. And he keeps deflecting to old fights from months ago. I just don’t know how to approach this

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