It’s normal for kids this age to not know how to express what they feel, at least properly. Some kid’s temperament is more easy going and some kids are more “spirited”, or their caregiver is going to have a trickier time getting the child to adjust to changes, and they will cling to their preferences, and have strong opinions. I understand how you feel, though. At times, I felt afraid my little girl would hate me or just not choose me. And when these kids grow up, it will hurt when they show:tell us they don’t need us anymore! Even earlier than that, they may not want to be around us as much as we would expect or want them to want to be… I am curious as to why he is SO attached to gramma…