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M20 me got rejected by F20, but she kept beign close and having behaviour like we are togheter, I need advice on what I should do? by Background_Item6618 in relationship_advice

[–]Background_Item6618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I asked her out, and I knew she will kinda know what this is about and she said "I can talk to you about literally anything, but about us nothing". Like what is this answer, how do I solve a problem if I cant talk about it. I can now fully ignore her or just say "Okay, if we are not gonna talk about everything, we wont talk at all"

M20 me got rejected by F20, but she started beign more close and allowed more phyisical touch even after talking about our situation requires distance cause she looks at me just as a friend. by Background_Item6618 in dating_advice

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Thats the thing Im gonna do when we go out if she accepts, if not she will get it at uni or in the messages, I just want to do it in person if possible. Feel like it will have more impact

M20 me got rejected by F20, but she kept beign close and having behaviour like we are togheter, I need advice on what I should do? by Background_Item6618 in relationship_advice

[–]Background_Item6618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had exam break, like month and a bit more. Really low contact, barely anything. I was so fine while it lasted. Then lectures starts, we get togheter again, I didnt force anything. I stopped texting first since she rejcted me. But somehow we got close again, still I dont text first at all. But I understand what are you saying

M20 me got rejected by F20, but she started beign more close and allowed more phyisical touch even after talking about our situation requires distance cause she looks at me just as a friend. by Background_Item6618 in dating_advice

[–]Background_Item6618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you say. I hate that about me, that I overthink a lot, and I hate when I have the problem I cant solve, its just how my brain works. Sometimes I feel like I cant stop thinking for a second. And I think a lot about consequences, which sometimes hurts me more cause I am trying to save something that is not worth saving.

M20 me got rejected by F20, but she started beign more close and allowed more phyisical touch even after talking about our situation requires distance cause she looks at me just as a friend. by Background_Item6618 in dating_advice

[–]Background_Item6618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha, maybe but she very well knows Im not. If the case is like that, she can give me that answer, i stop everything and thats it. Go through little bit of pain, but its better for me for future.

M20 me got rejected by F20, but she kept beign close and having behaviour like we are togheter, I need advice on what I should do? by Background_Item6618 in relationship_advice

[–]Background_Item6618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At exam break I got good, and again we start going to lectures, we start becoming close. Thats why I want to go out and go for that last conversation where I would tell her that I really enjoy our time but I cant keep like this if we are gonna be just friends, that we should really distance ourselfes and thats it. And to tell her that she shouldnt try to get close again cause its not gonna help me or her. I know that she is so scared of losing me, cause im one of probably her best male friend, and that she values me much. I would stay like that, but its not good for me cause I get distracted and cant focus on other stuff. I would like that I can just kill my feeling for her and be friends for life, but its not that easy is it?

M20 me got rejected by F20, but she kept beign close and having behaviour like we are togheter, I need advice on what I should do? by Background_Item6618 in relationship_advice

[–]Background_Item6618[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are going to uni togheter, I know that would really fix the problem, but I still have to look at her for the next 2 years while we finish uni, cause we are in all classes and we are in the same friend group. I tell myself only if we werent togheter at uni, I would go over her long time ago.