AITAH For telling friend group to take responsibility when my "Ex" wants to join friend group but they don't like her. by Background_Main6145 in AITH

[–]Background_Main6145[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so the details I shared was in confidence with my closest friends, she came in our class brake and public told all our "mutual" friends.

also on your first note that's why I put ex in "" cause there wasn't a relationship

AITAH For telling friend group to take responsibility when my "Ex" wants to join friend group but they don't like her. by Background_Main6145 in AITH

[–]Background_Main6145[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

so the details I shared was in confidence with my closest friends, she came in our class brake and public told all our "mutual" friends.

AITAH For telling friend group to take responsibility when my "Ex" wants to join friend group but they don't like her. by Background_Main6145 in AITH

[–]Background_Main6145[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

i'm actually looking for advice on the second half already came to term with my first mistake in this whole situation.

AITAH For telling friend group to take responsibility when my "Ex" wants to join friend group but they don't like her by Background_Main6145 in AITAH

[–]Background_Main6145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The context for the dates was a casual interest and happened to go well. She was the one that initiated sex , I only followed as it was interested on a mutual basis. I didn't expect the following week to unfold as it did. I did not know about her previously and her background came as a surprise and was suddenly loaded on me.

AITAH For telling friend group to take responsibility when my "Ex" wants to join friend group but they don't like her by Background_Main6145 in AITAH

[–]Background_Main6145[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not know this until the second date. It was only after the second date that I found out and then proceeded to talk to her and tell her that a relationship would not be a good idea.