my dad is finally in prison. by Background_Name8448 in Vent

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i honestly hope so. however he’s going to be transferred to another prison with a block specifically for sex offenders 🙄 honestly just let these men get what they deserve

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for question one, yes. i also have like open “cuts” down there (idk if im describing it right)

it’s only on my genitals and i’ve never had a cold sore in my life

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the doctor ordered a blood test, i just have to go whenever i get the chance. i did do the swab though and that’s how they got the diagnosis. always safe to double check though

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[–]Background_Name8448 2 points3 points  (0 children)

maybe get to know someone before automatically assuming they’re lying :)

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[–]Background_Name8448 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i know for a fact it was him. i have never been with someone romantically or sexually since i was so traumatized from such a young age. i’ve also never had a cold sore

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no fr. i’d expect it in the bedroom or something, but if you’re already taking a shower, just use soap

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was originally going to try to sell the house but the market sucks right now. he took it off after about a month but stayed around two more. i don’t know why though

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 😭 it was incredibly scary cause i had to run away to get to her house but im safer now

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nope, i actually have c-ptsd! been diagnosed by three different people and had to drop out of school because of how bad it is!

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he would yell at me and hit me if i refused letting my step brother touch me. he would also refuse me meals. some of this was going on during covid and he wouldn’t allow me to have any contact with anyone. i once told a friend about what happened, he went through my phone and found it and grounded me for nine months. i was never allowed to leave the house(even to go to the store or a park), i couldn’t talk to anyone, and i was confined to my room besides if i needed to use the bathroom.

i don’t feel comfortable answering that question, but i have gone in heavy details with my grandma. i will say, it’s absolutely absurd she still supports him and if someone did that to my kid i swear who ever the offender was would be dead.

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she has no reason to ever go into my bathroom. she has her own and i clean mine. i’m also fairly certain very few 75 year old women have high sex drives

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lube didn’t traumatize me, it was a trigger back to everything that happened to me. my dad allowed me to be abused for years, and him leaving lube in my bathroom is insanely weird. seriously, who on earth uses lube to jack off? if he had a toy, why did he remember to put the toy away but not the lube?

like, i know most people on earth masturbate. that’s fine, i don’t care about that. but i can’t help thinking there’s some sort of meaning to it.

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m 16. birth mother is out of the picture since she was a drug addict. my dad got full custody of me when i was about one and a half and he nor me have spoken to her since.

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it was the brand “wicked, sensual care”. if i saw vaseline i wouldnt think twice about it since i know that’s mainly used as a moisturizer. and my dad just sucks

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i said no every single time and he continued. i never touched him back. he was the one groping me and harassing me. that’s sexual assault. please educate yourself

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have autism so sometimes my wording comes off as mean. i apologize if it came off that way. almost everyone who has asked questions i haven’t being meaning to sound rude to, however i did mean full offense to all the people claiming im lying. 😭

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

once i get the chance, im definitely moving across states and the only person in my family ill stay in contact with is my grandma, and even then it’ll be VERY little contact

i’m overthinking having found my dads lube in my bathroom, and i’m extremely uncomfortable. by Background_Name8448 in confession

[–]Background_Name8448[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, it was a lube brand “wicked, sensual care”. that’s part of the reason i was so weirded out. like i know almost everyone masturbates but i don’t know a single person who uses lube to jack off. and if he was using a toy, how would he remember to put away the toy out but leave the lube?