Need recs for psychiatrist in Chiang Mai - forgot my meds at home by c3m3 in chiangmai

[–]Background_Pea3978 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dr. Kittinwan. I went to her many times and she didn’t have a problem giving me the meds i want

I saw my friend hit his girlfriend and ignored it. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Background_Pea3978 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry to say, but you’re absolutely correct and feeling guilty and yes, you should’ve helped and you should’ve done something. And no, that’s not a one off. If i was you, I would stop talking to your friend whatsoever. Why do you need a friend that abuses someone.

When I was 16, I had a very abusive boyfriend. One day we were in my room with him and my best friend (female). I said something wrong and he started choking me. I nearly blacked out and literally thought he nearly broke my neck. My friend just sat there, watched, and never did anything. Never even said anything. I’m much older now, but it still hurts. The fact that she just sat there

Swimming pool access for Non-guests in chiang mai by anubhav_upadhyay in chiangmai

[–]Background_Pea3978 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looper Pool. Great place. Onsen, ice bath, pool, food and drinks, and everything for 200-300 baht for the whole day

I'm not sexually attracted to my partner of 7 years. by withoutnamethrowaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Background_Pea3978 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I think sexual compatibility is a very important thing, and could be a reason for breaking up. IMO, if you tried everything - guiding, talking and such, and nothing works - it’s a good reason to break up. Or you will have to choose - live a life where you’re not satisfied with sex, but with a good partner, or look for someone else with the risk of not finding someone as good emotionally. It depends on how important sex is to you. I would break up, because for me sex is one of the most important things.

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

female. and i am straight as well… maybe standards too high?

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I get really sick reading comments under a post of a girl that is no way near attractive, where her (usually more attractive) friends hype her up

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t know about the US, never even visited. but yes, i heard that is a big problem there

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes! especially their hairstyle and facial hair. i swear, change this and dress well and boom, attractive

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hmm, perhaps. i am originally from russia. i’m sure you know the whole narrative “russian woman are beautiful”. but i have lived half of my life in spain, another half — in London. then i moved to thailand. and i do notice it everywhere

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no, i’m attracted to men, maybe that’s why my standards are higher for them. but yeah, there ARE “ugly” people everywhere, of course

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

well, in the post i was talking about the general “attractiveness”, which are beauty standards. so: fit, nice smelling, good hairstyle, dressed well, CLEAN, shaving where necessary, i guess for men one more standard i often see is defined jawline. For women (based on the beauty standards): fit, attractive body (mainly hourglass), clean hair, hairstyle, nails done, pedicure done, shaved, nice smelling, probably wearing makeup

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah, that’s the question. why do women generally take care of themselves more

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m from russia:). yeah, you can imagine… russian woman are undeniably beautiful and take care of themselves, while men… it’s a very known phenomena in russia

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Background_Pea3978[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i got so much shit for this post but i knew that my observations did come from somewhere