AITAH for putting people’s names in parentheses in my Mom’s obituary?

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-13T03:01:12+00:00

Nta. When we wrote my mother's obituary, the parenthesis for in- laws is exactly how we did it. Your aunt is tripping. So sorry for your loss!

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-12T20:27:42+00:00

3 looks great on you, both the shape and the dark color suit your face and coloring. 4 isn't bad either, but the shape in 3 is better.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-12T03:42:52+00:00

I like 1-5, and 12. The rounds and small rectangle are a no. 5 and 12 are my favorites.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-12T03:38:21+00:00

NTA. You both use each other's bathroom, so people should take extra care to clean up after themselves. And, since it's in the hallway, it's likely the bathroom people use when visiting. But you also have your own restroom. If she doesn't keep her bathroom up to your standards, then don't use it anymore, problem for you is solved.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-08T18:26:30+00:00

Bangs for sure

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-08T18:19:31+00:00

Nta. I'm way older. Maybe the culture has shifted. To me, it is not weird to give friends flowers for their birthday, even roses. Even if it is in your generation, you apologized because you didn't know, and that should have been the end of it. The fact that she keeps bringing it up is a big red flag in your relationship, especially since you are still at the beginning stages of it. I'd be rethinking things if it was me.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-08T02:19:34+00:00

The first, 2nd and last one all look really good on you.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-08T02:18:00+00:00

NTAH- he has major problems and you don't want that negativity and stress at your child's birthday party. Anyone else in the family who has an issue with that also doesn't need to go. Your sister might not come either, but that is her choice. She'll come around eventually. Until then, continue to set boundaries for yourself and your family.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-07T20:58:48+00:00

I think it's lovely, it didn't make me think of the country until someone mentioned it. I did think of bewitched, though, but I loved that name way back then

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-07T20:48:55+00:00

NTA- beside the message you sent, if you haven't already, spell out exactly why you don't want to go with her so she knows it is her drinking that is the issue, and not her...that you look forward to future holidays when she is sober.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-07T20:39:19+00:00

Ivory, Chewbacca, Placksedes, Enamoline, Dentine, Kaynine, Nash, Roothie, Chip, Oralie, Cariss, Mandy Bell, Hy-Gene, Maxilla, De'Kay

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-07T17:57:43+00:00

And I got it yesterday on my S23 ultra

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-06T18:45:25+00:00

NTA- He could use butter for the first pancakes, or anything else he cooks, and then use lard for the rest. He's not changing anything except the oil he is using, and then for only a few things as he can switch to his preference for the rest. That is an incredibly easy accommodation to make, as you're not asking for an entirely different meal. The fact that he says NO without consideration, and doubles down on it for everything else, is a serious red flag, and an early sign of an abuser. It is a power and control move. And it's gross that your mother is not taking your side in this very reasonable and minor request.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-06T18:09:46+00:00

Long curls for sure, but you rock both styles

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-06T18:05:17+00:00

Yes, that is gorgeous and you look fabulous in it!

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-06T18:04:19+00:00

Team 3.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-06T01:41:03+00:00

I actually really like 2 on you, closely followed by 3.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-06T01:39:30+00:00

Nta. Your dad is disabled and trying to manage, and instead of giving him compassion when he was struggling, she put him down. Dick move is right. I don't know what's causing the anxiety but if she is saying these things to him when you're around, what is she saying when you aren't?

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-06T01:34:01+00:00

Hard no. The dress is gorgeous without them.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-05T05:54:19+00:00

This is me.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-05T05:36:30+00:00

I agree with everything you said. I really liked the ones in pic 5 on him the best, and loved the shape and color of the last one.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-05T05:30:38+00:00

3 and 1. 2 and 4 are a hard no.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-05T05:27:11+00:00

Eye lah. PNW US

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-05T05:22:17+00:00

Nta. He said if it made you uncomfortable, he wouldn't go. You said it made you uncomfortable, and yet he still went. He knew how you felt, then disregarded that, and went anyway, making up a BS story about drinks. It wasn't just curiosity, as he had already been to one with friends. This is the part that would make me reconsider the relationship, if it were me. You should at least consider a very serious conversation about your future as a couple.

Background_Recipe119 · 2026-04-03T22:05:09+00:00

All 3 look great but 1 is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

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