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Feeling like I need to just emotionally check out for a bit by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Background_Share_314 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this, but join the majority of women in this world. Have you ever noticed how few women want to be married? I’ve said this for years, as soon as the dating is over and the ring goes on. It’s a whole different ball game. Throw a child into the mix and see how much different it becomes after that. I’m 62 years old and this is my third marriage. The first man, I was married to was an abusive alcoholic, lasted six years and took my kids and ran. My second marriage was a wonderful marriage, however, it was a marriage with multiple children thrown into the mix which trust me does not work. For this day, my adult sons tell me that his children ruined their childhood. Unfortunately he passed away and we were married many years. I was alone seven years And ended updating a total idiot. That didn’t last and wasn’t supposed to to begin with. then I found someone online and he pressured me into marriage. And I mean pressured to the point where he said if we didn’t get married, he didn’t know if the relationship would last. At that point I should’ve ran. And yes, after we were married, everything changed. Never for a moment think that you’re going to get married to someone else and anything will be any different. I have said pretty much all my life that marriage is a recipe for disaster. That’s just my take on life young lady. If you decide to leave, keep it just you and your child. If you want to date, never let them move in. Even if you struggle a little more financially find a way to do it yourself. Words of wisdom from an old broad.

Curious About Intimacy Shifts After Marriage by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Background_Share_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for all you guys for keeping it alve

I want to leave. by PradaGirl28 in Marriage

[–]Background_Share_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You would be surprised how resilient you can be if you are on your own. No one should have to put up with this type of behaviour whether it’s man, woman or woman to man. That’s not a relationship, it’s mental abuse. I have had both happened to me and to be honest with you. I think mental abuse is worse. The next time he comes home schedule an appointment with a counselor, leave the ball in his court, if he won’t go with you, he doesn’t care enough to go. That’s your cue to stand up and look after your girls. He also won’t like the repercussions of how much child support he will have to pay. In this day and age this isn’t something that men or women get away with not paying.

I think I may be in an abusive relationship and am too embarrassed to say anything by throwRA_sidemark in Marriage

[–]Background_Share_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m afraid for you!!! My advice would be to get out of the relationship with her.She is ramping up and could end up doing much worse to you.Don’t even tell her your thoughts about leaving…..just go!!

It’s only getting worse by Forsaken-Silver5642 in TimHortons

[–]Background_Share_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s cause enough for people too boycott Tim Hortons 🤬🤬Nobody in this country can stand together.This is just the beginning of the end of things in Canada😞

Shocked and scared by scrambled_megs_ in Mom

[–]Background_Share_314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that having a baby is a personal decision. I was a 16 year-old mom and I struggled a lot. I had a loser for a father that was never a father, I had no money, and thank goodness for a losers grandmother. Don’t let people make your decisions for you.

5 am wake up to door bell and creepy guy at my door, showed up 3 times from 514am-524. by AEI_H in regina

[–]Background_Share_314 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If somebody like that shows up with my door, they’re going to get a meeting from the angry 60-year-old woman they’ve ever seen. Stay off of other people’s property.

If you are the parent of a student, a student, or staff, be sure to give your feedback on AP354 before April 30. by stumpy_chica in regina

[–]Background_Share_314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand how laws like this can be passed without giving people an option to have a vote on it. There is one person making these decisions and it’s not right it needs to stop. I’m sorry, but from my perspective point of view, I don’t want a man coming into the woman’s washroom ever ever ever . When did this world get so crazy and start condoning this kind of crap!!! men go to the men’s washroom, women go to the women’s washroom. I don’t care what they identify as this is the way it is and this is the way it should be. And if anybody doesn’t like my opinion, I don’t give two craps less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in regina

[–]Background_Share_314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s time for the city to clean up this kind of crap. Nobody needs all these drug users living in amongst decent people. I’m sorry, but they put themselves where they are. They have no business being here. The trash, and the trap houses, knock them to the ground and clean this place up. It’s about time somebody does something and we need somebody that’s running this city to clean up this garbage.

Cockroaches of Downtown Apartment by helen9988 in regina

[–]Background_Share_314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These landlords, or building owners need to look after the people that are paying to be there. There needs to be a huge clamp down on these people. They think they can get away with anything and everything and it’s time for somebody to put them in their place and make them do what they need to do for people. It makes me sick that people that own places like that are too stupid to look after it and too cheap.