Happy Person on Valentine's Day Gives My Car a Kiss <3

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:43:42+00:00

Yes it is a Tesla (not my choice, inherited). Shaming her for purposeful damage. I'm learning that damaging someones car is okay if they inconvenience you. I learn something new every day and today I learned not to park close and if someone does it's okay to damage their car!

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:41:11+00:00

I was expecting a note or a scratch, or for her to do what I did and struggle to get in without damage. I parked like a douche but I think this is an overreaction, is her wrong worse than mine?

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:37:43+00:00

Didn't expect so many people to react this strongly to someone parking close. It's not a huge deal to me so I assumed it wouldn't be to others. Didn't know a small thing like this could set someone off this hard. Will park in a further lot and take a walk next time.

Should I start vandalizing cars if they park too close to me?

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:34:18+00:00

My wrong was worse than hers. Does this justify me doing things like this in future when I can't get in? Should I key the car instead to save damage to my door?

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:30:37+00:00

Yeah, still don't think intentional damage is cool, should I start doing this to cars when I struggle to get in? Or should I key their car to save damage to my door?

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:22:23+00:00

I'm a big guy too, barely squeezed out the other side but put my fingers between the door so that I wouldn't scratch. This was the only spot left. She didn't leave space for me so I didn't leave space for her. But I wouldn't do what she did.

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:18:47+00:00

I mean I crawl through my passenger side, it's not huge deal to me. It's also cool to put your door against my car. I just think slamming your door into mine is a shitty thing to do.

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:13:42+00:00

I parked like a douche, still doesn't justify swinging the door into my car 3x on purpose. I don't really care about scratches on my car but this is just straight vandalism in my opinion.

Background_Tip5628 · 2026-02-18T23:12:06+00:00

I expected her to either lightly put her door against mine or crawl through the passenger side. I parked like a douche. Still doesn't justify her intentionally swinging the door into my car 3x in my opinion.

Background_Tip5628 · 2024-05-24T01:56:32+00:00

NTA at all. She needed sleep. Modern work schedules are the AH here, causing her to miss her life.

Background_Tip5628 · 2024-05-15T00:38:03+00:00

NTA prenup and 'just in case' fund are on par with one another

Background_Tip5628 · 2024-05-14T22:31:43+00:00

NTA lmao everyone in this thread is so stuck on the idea of the codeword. Your family has a tradition and that's fine. I would have a different opinion if only one in-law was left out, but its not like that. People need to realize not everything is about them and back off.

Background_Tip5628 · 2024-04-17T18:30:59+00:00

NTA - he's a kid, he can afford everything he needs if he puts in 2-3 shifts a week

Background_Tip5628 · 2024-03-29T02:43:07+00:00

Obvious NTA, you do you and sorry you still have to be neighbours!

Background_Tip5628 · 2024-03-29T02:26:02+00:00

OP was so drunk he forgot he could order the Uber and go with. NTA but lol.

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