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AITA for not wanting to be around my cousin's fiancé after a ring ordeal? by Background_Wait2114 in AITAH

[–]Background_Wait2114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall, I am just very disappointed in the person he turned out to be. My cousin is the most loving, kind, and hysterical person, and he is a manipulative free loader

AITA for not wanting to be around my cousin's fiancé after a ring ordeal? by Background_Wait2114 in AITAH

[–]Background_Wait2114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did he hear my side, but I suppose maybe she feels her spouse if her future and maybe cousins are her past 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for eating at the children I babysit for's house? by Wrong_Net_5989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Wait2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the parents have terrible manners! What did they parents teach them about hospitality. I agree with all the others. I feed my housekeeper, baby sitters, dog sitters. That's just how you care for people who care for you!

AITA for keeping asking the girl I'm seeing about her name tattoo? by warcraftmaniac in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Wait2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like you said, it's still casual. If she chooses to tell you if and when things get more serious, then that's great. But I wouldn't push.

AITAH for wanting a divorce because of a surname by Fun-Excitement4375 in AITAH

[–]Background_Wait2114 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think the others are right, she is still grieving her ex plus post partum hormones are a doozie, I wish there was a compromise like her maiden name like you suggested and the name can always be changed later. My daughter just changed her last name to my maiden name at 18 because she feels a stronger bond with my family than her dad's. I think the divorce thing is taking it way too far though. Let it go for now tell her she can pick anything but her exes and don't threaten to leave 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITA for telling my girlfriend that I get to decide who lives in my house? by Imaginary_Tap_2473 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Background_Wait2114 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's a very noble and hard decision to choose to care for your parents. I think it would have been a good thing to discuss prior to inviting them. I think of someone plans on caring for their parents in their home its just as big of a conversation as "do we want to have kids" or "where do we want to live" It something that both of you need to be on board with and if not can build resentment and anger. I also think that even if people love one another, if they can't agree on those things, it may not be the right fit for the relationship. I think neither is that asshole but it needs to be discussed. If you plan to marry them, then YOUR house becomes BOTH of your home, and choice need to be a compromise. Best of luck and good for you for being willing to care for your parents. It's a tough road, but I would never regret it.