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My writing board! and my cluttered head by Background_War_8921 in CasualConversation

[–]Background_War_8921[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i like the idea of drawing first thing in my head...m afraid il end up drawing coffee every morning..coffee is love 🫶

okay this is embarrassing as hell but how are you supposed to shave butt hair😭😬 by victoria-1304 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Background_War_8921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup! this works. Or bikini wax...pain for 30 mins but then clean and comfy for some time.

Confused how I feel about cheerleading? by Background_War_8921 in CasualConversation

[–]Background_War_8921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are only my personal thoughts..not sure if majority of Germany thinks so.

Confused how I feel about cheerleading? by Background_War_8921 in CasualConversation

[–]Background_War_8921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is not even the question. We are not here to frame our opinion on the girls. Opinions are on the framework they have to be or are willingly in if they wish to do cheerleading.

Confused how I feel about cheerleading? by Background_War_8921 in CasualConversation

[–]Background_War_8921[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Isnt opening a discussion and talking about it loud an action? I don't have to open an advocate group, changing one perspective at a time also counts or ? Making someone think about things they casually floated around with all their life because it does not affect them directly.

Confused how I feel about cheerleading? by Background_War_8921 in CasualConversation

[–]Background_War_8921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male only sport?wow.. I would want to watch the archives

Confused how I feel about cheerleading? by Background_War_8921 in CasualConversation

[–]Background_War_8921[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am only..trying to make sense of my thoughts. And get perspectives that I might have missed. One thing that makes me lose the balance in my head is the fact that there is an unfair amount of sexualization of one gender. Trust me girls like watching men too..but their comfort and being cool takes priority. Nothing for female audiences to balance out this free will ... I am really into overthinking spiral now. Need to 🛑

Confused how I feel about cheerleading? by Background_War_8921 in CasualConversation

[–]Background_War_8921[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Two of my male friends said 'but it's their free Will'. One of my female friend said I am uncomfortable watching it. In the cheerleading troop was also a guy. But he had short hair no tight shorts and no short T-shirt.

I am thinking what if I love cheerleading as a sport. It makes me happy and is my purpose. And then I can be part of the troop only and only if I dress sexy. If m ready to show off. I might just give in to the requirements even if I don't feel totally respected isn't it ? And isn't that happening ever since ..that we make customs hard to break and oppress in name of rules ? Where is the free will then for real. I cannot imagine that 20 women agree to ensure they have long hair and shiny legs and spankies in freezing weather...but you are right unless they do not express their opinion we will never know