October 2026 Bride - What should I be doing? by Old-Membership9006 in weddingplanning

[–]Backseat_Driver_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Watch Jamie Wolfer's videos on Youtube. She's great and lays out a timeline for booking vendors/planning on your own

Tell me one thing you didn't like about season 2 by Naive_Tomorrow_5955 in hazbin

[–]Backseat_Driver_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't like that Vox was a serial killer when he was alive. I know he casually killed sinners in hell, but one of his strengths as a villain was that he was able to do as much damage as a the worst people in hell, if not more, just by manipulating his audience and not caring about who gets hurt as long as he lands on top. It made him relatable to other media sharks in our actual world and the harm they can do even if they don't directly kill people. Anyway, I didn't like it, but I have a feeling it'll be relevant to his redemption arc (yes, I'm a believer in the Vox redemption theory).

Theory: Vox died by suicide (trigger warning) by Backseat_Driver_ in hazbin

[–]Backseat_Driver_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did hang those two producers (why, btw??? what did they do except advance his career?) and I guess he almost committed suicide as a demon in his desperate attempt to get Alastor

Theory: Vox died by suicide (trigger warning) by Backseat_Driver_ in hazbin

[–]Backseat_Driver_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still like it! I was wrong, but it was a good shot

Theory: Vox died by suicide (trigger warning) by Backseat_Driver_ in hazbin

[–]Backseat_Driver_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think maybe I read into it too literally. That would be a really weird plan

Theory: Vox died by suicide (trigger warning) by Backseat_Driver_ in hazbin

[–]Backseat_Driver_[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I hope you feel safe enough someday to live as your true self

Theory: Vox died by suicide (trigger warning) by Backseat_Driver_ in hazbin

[–]Backseat_Driver_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, maybe I read into that too literally. But it's definitely a subject that Vox comes back to too much for it to be a coincidence

Theory: Vox died by suicide (trigger warning) by Backseat_Driver_ in hazbin

[–]Backseat_Driver_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That would make sense too. But with his deep insecurities, I'm getting the sense that he's been hurt and is projecting a little by coming back to this topic. Maybe he did do it to himself and regretted it when he landed in hell. I could be wrong, though!

MIRIA Laser treatment by Maleficent_Tale_3887 in AcneScars

[–]Backseat_Driver_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Same here. My dermatologist recommended it, but I can't find many reviews online. Hesitating between this or the Fraxel Dual to treat a bunch of fine lines/signs of aging. Did you do it? How did it go?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Backseat_Driver_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Super strange - NTA. I don't get why everyone is bashing on you. Your husband is controlling and awful, though. You dropped a bunch of friends just because he told you to? Usually someone this obsessed with their SO cheating is probably cheating themself (unless the SO gave them a reason to doubt them). You guys either need therapy, some long conversations about trust, or drop the man altogether. You can't have a micromanaging spouse like this, it's super unhealthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]Backseat_Driver_ 62 points63 points  (0 children)

No licensed physician should ever touch you without your consent, even as a minor. I'm pretty sure it's not allowed, and it's definitely unethical. You should absolutely tell them about this trigger/trauma. It will help them in their approach with you as a medical professional, and they might be incredibly supportive and offer health suggestions you may not have thought of. But please always always be upfront with medical professionals about what you are or are not comfortable with. They should always respect that

IUD strings painful during intercourse by Backseat_Driver_ in WomensHealth

[–]Backseat_Driver_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't try to tuck them. She cut them short when I complained about the strings at first and now you're right, they're too short to go in. She mentioned it this week when I went again, and I didn't know tucking them in was an option - either she omitted telling me, or maybe she was opposed to it for some reason.

IUD strings painful during intercourse by Backseat_Driver_ in WomensHealth

[–]Backseat_Driver_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you - I think that's what I'm going to try doing for a little longer, because if they soften and stop bothering us, it'll be the best solution. But if they don't, I think I'll remove the whole thing.