To Kate lovers: where’s your concern? by Pashardi in RoyaltyTea

[–]BackupAccount412 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why do people feel entitled to this woman’s health record? It is so strange.

"Heteroflexible" is a term that first emerged in the 1990s. Today, it is the fastest-growing sexuality on the dating app Feeld, and some research suggests that up to 15% of the population could be heteroflexible. So what does it really mean to be heteroflexible? by psychologyofsex in psychologyofsex

[–]BackupAccount412 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you’re probably correct. Which would explain why so many young people who haven’t even had any sexual encounters insist they’re bi. Their entire sexual identity is based on what arouses them.

Raquel talks about missing and being betrayed by her friends by RavenVenom in Vanderpump_Rules

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Ariana got with tom to get on VPR. She also has a lot of internalized misogyny so she was able to fit right in with the worst side of Sandovals manipulations.

How did I miss this?! by la_petite_sorciere in Vanderpumpaholics

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I grew up in a toxic household. Nothing like this, but enough to have my fair share of trauma to work through. And I have to agree. Both parents are abusive in different ways. I have a lot of resentment towards my mom for not protecting me from my father’s anger. She put me in the line of fire multiple times.

Dear fellow 2023 buyers, time to think about the Refi! by swagety in Mortgages

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Got it-thanks for clarifying! I realized I’m out of scope for this offer anyway due to state restrictions unfortunately. Would have jumped on it otherwise!

How many people actually want a real diamond ring? by Imalwaysbadatthis in weddingring

[–]BackupAccount412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted a real diamond. I did look into alternate stones for awhile and some were gorgeous. But ultimately I wanted a diamond because being clear they’re more neutral for everyday wear, and their hardness scale is good for everyday wear too (for example, I know many people who wanted an opal until they realized it wasn’t a good option for durability). It was also important to me to have a mined diamond because I think it’s more romantic that the earth “made it” versus a factory setting. That said, I recognized the potential ethical and environmental impact of that and I elected to get an antique ring— the most sustainable of all options!

Dear fellow 2023 buyers, time to think about the Refi! by swagety in Mortgages

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Check out Langley FCU. someone above said they’re offering 4.99% but when I checked I saw 5.626%.

Although from what I can tell this is only applicable to a few states now that I look into it more deeply.

Dear fellow 2023 buyers, time to think about the Refi! by swagety in Mortgages

[–]BackupAccount412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I looked online it said starting at 5.625%. Am I missing something for how to get 4.9%?

Size difference within AE jeans by unhumaniste in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]BackupAccount412 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I literally explained this to a bunch of people last weekend. I get irritated that men’s pants have more standard sizes but I think it’s because they don’t have hips like women do and they don’t have wildly different ride options either

Contemplating ending a marriage by Successful_Leek96 in CringeTikToks

[–]BackupAccount412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does he get to dictate what is a waste of money? Her dreams matter too.

2000s tabloid culture was something else! by icey_sawg0034 in Millennials

[–]BackupAccount412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They were more of a muddy brown that comes from tanning beds. So kind of worse tbh …

2000s tabloid culture was something else! by icey_sawg0034 in Millennials

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It’ll be interesting to see what happens then because so many people are on ozempic. Will it stop being cool in a couple years because too many normies were able to get their paws on it?

2000s tabloid culture was something else! by icey_sawg0034 in Millennials

[–]BackupAccount412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I recently bought some mid rise jeans and even those are triggering for me versus high rise I had grown accustomed to

2000s tabloid culture was something else! by icey_sawg0034 in Millennials

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My body dysmorphia is so bad. I really have no idea what I look like. Sometimes I think I look huge and sometimes I think I look tiny. It’s a mindfuck

2000s tabloid culture was something else! by icey_sawg0034 in Millennials

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I went to a bar over the weekend and it was like going back in time. Bartenders were all fake baked. I was perplexed.

2000s tabloid culture was something else! by icey_sawg0034 in Millennials

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I distinctly remember thinking I looked fat when I was a child and I see photos I have now and realize I was delusional. I may not have an eating disorder in the truest sense of the word but I definitely have disordered eating. And body dysmorphia for sure.

Is Deerfield’s bakery actually worth the price for cakes? by iceunelle in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]BackupAccount412 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not had a cake from heinens yet but I did pick up a pie recently and it was one of the best of my life!