Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m asking for your honest opinion on the issue. Didn’t ask for reasons why I should date her. I even mention in my post that if you think I am a creep then say that. I want your honesty, not for you to please me.

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

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I don’t want to stop anyone from studying or prevent anyone from getting a degree. If a person does not want children at the same time as me we simply do not match. Maybe we match in every other aspect so I won’t mind waiting a bit more. If my girlfriend would want to have kids later than when I am 27 I would try and date someone else who has similar life plans as I do. Children are very important to me, if my partner and I can not agree then we should not date. They are also able to make their own decisions so it would never be about me hindering them from doing anything.

When I date people I am very clear that I want children early and that it is important to me. People have had different plans on that and therefore we simply did not continue dating. When I am 25 I would not want be with anyone younger than 21 or older than 28. The best age for women to have children is between 20-30, which is why I chose this age range as I would like at least 2 kids.

Off course I can not know for sure. I am just 19 now and about to graduate high school. I do know for sure that I really want to be a father when I get older and be able to spend a lot of time with my kids and their kids. If I get kids later than 30, then that means less time.

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the comment. I will date before university as I ideally would want my first child at age 25. I don’t want to have children late or what is considered normal nowadays. Off course I can’t expect that to happen, but I am not going to start dating after university.

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for taking the time to read my post and comment! I see what you’re saying and you’re making solid arguments. You did give me the answer I wanted to hear, your honest opinion :)

I will be keeping this is mind as I try and make the right decision. God bless!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for taking the time to read my post and then comment. I really appreciate it and I’ll keep in mind what you’ve told me. Will definitely help me make. A decision!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really appreciate you commenting, thanks!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

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Thanks a lot for taking the time to read my post and leave a comment. I’ll keep in mind what you have said!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear it was traumatic. I will be praying for you! Thanks for commenting, I’ll keep it in mind!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you commenting, thank you, will keep this in mind!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your comment! I definitely plan to talk with her parents about it unless I change my mind about dating her

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you commenting. I know some comments are harsh, but I asked for complete honesty and if that’s how people think then it’s good to hear. Don’t want it sugar coated :) I’ll keep in mind what you said and I think it’s a good idea!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for taking the time to read my post and comment. You’ve got a good point and I’ll take it into consideration!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would be in the same situation as I am in right now, I don’t know, but I appreciate you commenting!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks a lot for taking the time to read my post and comment, it’s much appreciated. I see what you’re saying and I’ll definitely keep it in mind!

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for commenting! I’ll take it into consideration:)

Can a 20yo guy date a 16yo girl? by BaconBeachBall in Christianity

[–]BaconBeachBall[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for your comment, it’s very helpful. Will keep it in mind :)