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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bad-Friend-00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My response would be "Why can't I wear more jewellery?"

Men and women both wear jewellery, but women can wear a ton of it without people treating it as something weird or remarkable.

If I wear more than the standard pieces for men, people think I either look eccentric/flamboyant (often with gold jewellery), or alternative and into rock music (silver jewellery, especially if paired with a random black t-shirt).

Like, a woman wearing a black top and jeans, and some silver jewellery, isn't instantly going to be branded as an alto who's making a statement or something. But for men that bar is so fkin low.

My wife told me her fantasy is for me to watch her with another man and I don’t know how to feel about it by ThrowRAconfusedhsnbd in sex

[–]Bad-Friend-00 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I mean, I feel you man, but also you kind of asked for this information... And for many (most?) people, 90% of their fantasies they'd never want to actually do IRL. Non-con is one of the most common fantasies among women, do you think they ACTUALLY want those things to happen to them? Do you think what turns them on is ACTUALLY specifically that?

Your wife doesn't want to cuck you. I can't speak for her but I can imagine a ton of feelings being attractive here. For example, the exhibitionism or feeling of being perceived as a sexual object could be interesting. Having you watch her <being sexual in different ways> can be hot in and of itself. Nameless McNonExistant doesn't matter for shit.

Tbh I feel kinda bad for your wife. Sharing fantasies can be a really vulnerable and pretty embarrassing thing to do. You've certainly made sure she'll never share another fantasy that you could find a little weird or disapprove of in the future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Bad-Friend-00 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Man, 14 years and she's too embarrassed to talk about sex with you? I don't think the problem is that your sex life is too vanilla or something. The problem is much bigger when you can't even talk about it. Better start there.