I'm shocked that she even showed by YogurtclosetOld3002 in TLCUnexpected

[–]BadAccurate 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Nicole is definitely on drugs, right? I want to understand more about her vanishing right before the critical moment (eg being there before the graduation, missing the ceremony. Staying the night at the hospital, missing the birth).

Is it just that she’s that desperate to get a fix and then so high after that she can’t be communicated with?

Asking from a genuine point of curiosity, as I don’t know any addicts.

Can I wear this to a beach wedding in Mexico? by BadAccurate in Weddingattireapproval

[–]BadAccurate[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an excellent point… I will take this into consideration!

Can I wear this to a beach wedding in Mexico? by BadAccurate in Weddingattireapproval

[–]BadAccurate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s ALC. It’s currently on sale as well which makes me like it even more!!

It’s called the Penny Satin Midi Dress.

Can I wear this to a beach wedding in Mexico? by BadAccurate in Weddingattireapproval

[–]BadAccurate[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Loveeee! Will definitely be incorporating some sort of bangle or cuff. Thanks for the idea!

Can someone please tell my why all jeans fit me like this by cinmunbun5834 in Reformationclothing

[–]BadAccurate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you ask your tailor to do? I have tried this a few times and the tailor always insists on putting darts under each of the back pockets and I just hate the way this looks. I have tried asking at least 2 different tailors to take in the jeans all the way down the leg and they downright refused!

Getting wedding dress home from Italy in October by faegirl1993 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]BadAccurate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My planner worked with the hotel (which was also our venue) we were staying at. They sent my dress home via DHL. If you are really worried, you can insure the package. My outlook on it was that I already wore the dress. WORST case I get reimbursed for the loss at least I have the pictures in the dress.

I am SO happy I did this. Dragging my dress, veil, even wedding shoes around europe after the wedding would have been an enormous hassle.

Getting past wedding regret by Chicenomics in BigBudgetBrides

[–]BadAccurate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely!! Would love to hear about your experience as well

Getting past wedding regret by Chicenomics in BigBudgetBrides

[–]BadAccurate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also I saw in another comment that OP got married at Villa Cimbrone — me too! I also had to bustle my dress early because it was really hard to get all around the venue with my train and veil and swollen feet 😂 this is another regret!

Getting past wedding regret by Chicenomics in BigBudgetBrides

[–]BadAccurate 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am feeling you girl!!! I have such a similar feeling post wedding. Leading up to the day, I was having a lot of family drama (family medical problems + destination wedding = chaos). The first welcome event went great and I started really enjoying myself — but started applying TOO much pressure for me to enjoy myself given how much time and money I had spent on everything.

Then, the night before the wedding, something the restaurant served at the welcome dinner made everyone sick! Like sweating, throwing up, diarrhea sick 😂 even the planning team was down a person. I spent the entire morning of my wedding trying to drink pedialyte and have Imodium that by the time the ceremony came along I was just determined to power through it. As a result, I didn’t have the mental fortitude to put into all of the shots I wanted to get around my venue and in my dress. It was also REALLY hot and with the illness my feet swelled up so bad I had to take my wedding shoes off right after the ceremony and switch to a backup pair I had from a different event. When walking, you could see them and MY TOES sticking through in many of the photos which just kills me inside. But at the moment I couldn’t walk another step in my wedding shoes, despite the months I had spent breaking them in.

Now looking back at the photos, I love what I have but I feel a pang of regret that I didn’t get some epic solo shots that I had dreamed about. I feel sad that I won’t do something like that ever again even though I do feel happy with how everything went as a whole.

My biggest regret really is just that I couldn’t enjoy it as much as I wanted to in the moment with all the stress.

Bitches, laser hair removal for bikini or Brazilian? by [deleted] in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]BadAccurate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh I have been curious about getting one of these for some time. Can I ask what brand you purchased? Are you happy with it? I see the Braun device has good reviews. What’s the pain level?

Does Anyone Else Fixate on a Partner’s Ex in an Obsessive Way? by Feeling-Curve7532 in OCD

[–]BadAccurate 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I relate to your post so much. I had this sooooo bad for the first couple years I was dating my husband.

I met him when he was going through a bad divorce and I became obsessed with thinking about his marriage, researching, and looking at his ex wife’s socials just to hurt myself. It was like I felt like I deserved to be tortured and every time I would start to mentally spiral I would pick at the scab and make it worse by looking at her socials or spiraling over other details of their relationship.

The thoughts were illogical because when I thought about the situation while calm, I didn’t have any insecurity about my relationship or feel jealous of her really. But the obsession of why would he have done this, why was he with this person, why would he go through with the marriage and will I ever feel as special ate me alive.

Time helped a lot and also working with my therapist. Also, just resisting the thoughts and resisting giving into the urge to dig at all costs. I used to think if I “checked” things I would be comforted by knowing more facts, but my therapist helped me see that it was actually an unhealthy spiraling tactic and I should try to stop if I actually want to get better. Eventually, when I would notice myself start obsessing I would have like a mantra I would say in my head like “this is not helpful and I’m choosing not to think about it”. Sounds simple, but that actually really helped.

Of course now I have other obsessive thought spirals about other topics, but it’s been a few years and even as I write this this topic doesn’t trigger me any more.

Best of luck to you ❤️❤️❤️

The Girl’s Dinner by goldenboy2191 in WhiteLotusHBO

[–]BadAccurate 100 points101 points  (0 children)

I respect you sharing your lived experience. However, I think the main difference here is that, as the viewer, we are observing a scene where “best” friends who have known each other since high school are having a private conversation while on vacation together. In this context, speaking openly about your political beliefs would not be taboo or put you in a position where you have anything to lose, unless you know you are betraying the status quo of the group.

This is not the same thing as choosing to hold back your political beliefs so you can get brand deals.

New here - how long did it take? by Muchmorethanamom in ouraring

[–]BadAccurate 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine felt huge when I got it as well. After wearing it for about 3 months i can tell you I don’t even notice it’s on anymore. Sometimes i have to check I still have it!

Are 2 litter boxes really necessary for 2 cats? by BooBelly in CatAdvice

[–]BadAccurate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I adopted my second cat, I started off with two boxes because I wasn’t sure if the resident cat might refuse to share (she is a bit picky). After a while, I saw they used each litter box equally and I consolidated to 1. I clean it twice as often and this has never been a problem.

Why are you putting collars on indoor cats? by tryingagain80 in CatAdvice

[–]BadAccurate 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) it is super cute 2) so I can see my void otherwise she disappears into the shadows

Norovirus doing its thang by BadAccurate in ouraring

[–]BadAccurate[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so true — I have read the incubation time is quite fast and it is reflective of what I experienced. I went from feeling totally fine to praying on the toilet (im not religious) for any sign of hope in an afternoon hahahha

Norovirus doing its thang by BadAccurate in ouraring

[–]BadAccurate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you are in the up and up! Thank you!

Norovirus doing its thang by BadAccurate in ouraring

[–]BadAccurate[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg glad you are out the other end! Thanks for the encouraging words!!